u/Dramatic-Morning-783

I need some guidance on helping my 16 year old with ODD. I recently had to send him to a military school because I have tried for years to help him. He has had therapists and meds, but it's not helping so I had to resort to the military school. I received a call a few days ago that he is still very defiant and talking back. He also eggs others on. They told me he had 8 days to improve or they would have to let him go. If he doesn't straighten out there, what, if anything can I do. I'm a single mom of 2 other boys. please help. thank you