I’m curious what signs people noticed after the fact that made them realize their partner wasn’t genuinely invested in the relationship and was more just going through the motions or “playing the part.” Like someone who says all the right things, acts loving sometimes, maybe even says “I love you,” but deep down something feels emotionally off or inconsistent. Did you realize it while you were in the relationship, or only after it ended? I feel like sometimes people can mimic love really well without actually being emotionally available or fully invested, and it’s hard to tell the difference until later. Curious about other people’s experiences….
TL;DR: What signs made you realize someone was only pretending to be emotionally invested in the relationship?