Most evil situation-ship I’ve had
When I was 16 I was working in fast food, there was this guy I worked with he was 18 at the time. I ended up stalking through my coworkers instagrams and found his account and followed him. We started talking to eachother everyday, staying up all night on phone calls all that stuff. He knew I had a thing for him and he told me at the start that he was not interested as I was way too young for him, despite saying this he would flirt with me constantly. After talking for about 3 months he told me he wanted to sleep with me but then the next day he said it was a joke. He would also talk about being in a relationship with me and tell me he had feelings for me, he would even tell his siblings this and I was good friends with his brothers gf. One night he asked me about sleeping with him and I said I don’t want to do that with anyone unless I was in a relationship with them as I’ve never done it before and I didn’t want to be used. He told me that o should have sex with him because we are both “horny teenagers” and that sex didn’t mean he had feelings for me. I got pretty upset with him about that and I didn’t speak to him for a few days, that pissed him off so he gave my phone number to his friends got them to call me until I picked up, he then joined the call and kept apologising to me until I accepted it (I know I shouldn’t have accepted the apology but I was so in love with him). A few weeks after that it was his birthday, he had invited me originally then told me not to come the week before which I didn’t understand why, I found out that he had told people at the party that he hated my guts and wanted to use me for a root. I asked him if this was true and he said yes, even though I was upset at him I didn’t stop talking to him, that same night I came home from work super late and had plans the next day, he told me to go on call with him and I said no, he then accused me of being mad about what he said and I told him o was just tired. He then asked if I could come and sleep with him the next day and I told him I had plans so he blocked me on everything. After three days of being blocked he called me, I was balling my eyes out on this phone call as I thought I would never hear from him again, he then told me I needed to apologise for not sleeping with him and for being a bitch which I did becuase I feared being blocked again. I ended up agreeing to go to his house and we slept together, before I went home he promised to see me again and he kissed me on the forehead. I got blocked the moment I left his house.
Weeks went by and I saw him at work and I ended up having a chat with him this is basically how the conversation went:
Me: “you blocked me on everything what’s up with that”
Him: “you kept texting me and wanting to talk to me all the time it pissed me off”
Me: “you were the one threatening to never speak to me again if I didn’t respond. Anyways you can’t just use someone for sex that’s so ficked up”
Him: “I didn’t use you, you came onto me besides you are way to young for me and you knew from the beginning this was never anything more”
Me: “so what I’m too young to be with but I’m old enough to use?” “And you cant say I knew this was nothing more than sex when you were the one calling me every second of every day, telling people you had feelings for me”
Him: “I hated you the whole time”
Me: “I know this meant nothing to you but this meant everything to me and you knew that, you knew I was in love with you”
I then stuck the finger up at him and walked away,
I never saw him again
He ended up getting a girlfriend straight after me and after that little chat me and him had he never showed his face at work again.