u/Dramatic_Meeting183

[19/F] mail pals?

i think the smallest things about people are what make them feel the most human. like unfinished thoughts, random habits, the way someone explains something they care about, or the little things they notice that nobody else does.

anyhow, im 19 and i currently study nursing. i’d say im a pretty understanding person, at least that’s what people around me tend to tell me, and i genuinely like listening to people without judging them.

one thing i can say for sure about myself is that i know who i am not, and i think that makes it easier for me to connect with different kinds of people. if i see someone being mistreated in front of me, i’ll speak up. i always have.

tbh writing about myself like this feels a little cringe because i genuinely never do it 😭 but here we are.

i’ve been an introvert, extrovert, then somehow both at once, and now i think im just somewhere in the middle. but one thing that’s always stayed with me is the feeling of not really being heard. and i don’t mean in some dramatic way, i mean in small everyday things. like asking someone to do something simple and being brushed off like it’s a joke. after a while it starts making you feel invisible. so i really value people who listen with intention and communicate honestly.

i want friendships where we can genuinely talk about anything \~ random thoughts, serious conversations, life, books, stupid things, all of it.

also, just to be transparent, im preferably looking to talk to girls. i’ve had some uncomfortable experiences online in the past, and because of that i’ve become more careful about who i interact with. nothing personal toward anyone at all, it’s just what makes me feel comfortable.

also im a huge reader and i love thrillers. my favourite books are the courage to be disliked and a perfect marriage. my favourite shows are wayne and normal people :)

thanks for reading

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u/Dramatic_Meeting183 — 8 days ago

[19/F] mail pals?

i think the smallest things about people are what make them feel the most human. like unfinished thoughts, random habits, the way someone explains something they care about, or the little things they notice that nobody else does.

anyhow, im 19 and i currently study nursing. i’d say im a pretty understanding person, at least that’s what people around me tend to tell me, and i genuinely like listening to people without judging them.

one thing i can say for sure about myself is that i know who i am not, and i think that makes it easier for me to connect with different kinds of people. if i see someone being mistreated in front of me, i’ll speak up. i always have.

tbh writing about myself like this feels a little cringe because i genuinely never do it 😭 but here we are.

i’ve been an introvert, extrovert, then somehow both at once, and now i think im just somewhere in the middle. but one thing that’s always stayed with me is the feeling of not really being heard. and i don’t mean in some dramatic way, i mean in small everyday things. like asking someone to do something simple and being brushed off like it’s a joke. after a while it starts making you feel invisible. so i really value people who listen with intention and communicate honestly.

i want friendships where we can genuinely talk about anything \~ random thoughts, serious conversations, life, books, stupid things, all of it.

also, just to be transparent, im preferably looking to talk to girls. i’ve had some uncomfortable experiences online in the past, and because of that i’ve become more careful about who i interact with. nothing personal toward anyone at all, it’s just what makes me feel comfortable.

also im a huge reader and i love thrillers. my favourite books are the courage to be disliked and a perfect marriage. my favourite shows are wayne and normal people :)

thanks for reading

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u/Dramatic_Meeting183 — 8 days ago

19, friends/email pals anyone?

i think the smallest things about people are what make them feel the most human. like unfinished thoughts, random habits, the way someone explains something they care about, or the little things they notice that nobody else does.

anyhow, im 19 and i currently study nursing. i’d say im a pretty understanding person, at least that’s what people around me tend to tell me, and i genuinely like listening to people without judging them.

one thing i can say for sure about myself is that i know who i am not, and i think that makes it easier for me to connect with different kinds of people. if i see someone being mistreated in front of me, i’ll speak up. i always have.

tbh writing about myself like this feels a little cringe because i genuinely never do it 😭 but here we are.

i’ve been an introvert, extrovert, then somehow both at once, and now i think im just somewhere in the middle. but one thing that’s always stayed with me is the feeling of not really being heard. and i don’t mean in some dramatic way, i mean in small everyday things. like asking someone to do something simple and being brushed off like it’s a joke. after a while it starts making you feel invisible. so i really value people who listen with intention and communicate honestly.

i want friendships where we can genuinely talk about anything ~ random thoughts, serious conversations, life, books, stupid things, all of it.

also, just to be transparent, im preferably looking to talk to girls. i’ve had some uncomfortable experiences online in the past, and because of that i’ve become more careful about who i interact with. nothing personal toward anyone at all, it’s just what makes me feel comfortable.

also im a huge reader and i love thrillers. my favourite books are the courage to be disliked and a perfect marriage. my favourite shows are wayne and normal people :)

thanks for reading

reddit.com
u/Dramatic_Meeting183 — 8 days ago