r/Needafriend

34f need a friend

I’m a single mom of 6 so free time isn’t really a thing for me. We’ve been through a lot and I have absolutely no one I’m close with and it’s starting to be a struggle. I feel so alone and would just love someone to talk to

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u/Honest_Sky9956 — 8 hours ago

20F Canadian!

I’m 20F Canadian! I am NOT a s3ller or a b0t nor do I have another app I wish to message on lol I am looking for a slightly older girl or a boy 30 to 40 is ideal. I am a bartender and I like to work on classic cars in my free time as well as play a lot of video games lol you can often find me reading old diagrams about classic car suspension modernization and various other car/truck manuals.

To be very clear, I don’t wish to send pictures or receive pictures. I would like to get to know somebody and them to get to know me I feel this is not asking a lot, but sometimes I feel that it is impossible to have genuine conversations and get to know somebody lol

I’d like a flirty (not p3rvy know the difference) friend that could lead to more

DM’s are open welcome to the shit show❤️

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u/S1utty1i1puppy — 8 hours ago

19F , Hello everyone!!

Hello everyone , to begin with, this week hasn’t exactly been THE best for me. It’s actually been pretty devastating, honestly. I’m here because I’d like to make some new friends XD. I’m really into reading, writing, and music. If I had to be specific, I mostly love indie and pop. Not really sure what else to mention, but hmu if you think you're interested !

All I ask is, be around my age, and please don’t just say “hi” or “hello” I'm not replying to that

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u/kazjesperwylaninej — 7 hours ago

24F and Looking for Friend from India(South)

want friends who are into movies and stories, people who enjoy talking about interesting things like life, emotions, dreams, random thoughts, and deep conversations. Friends with whom I can have really good conversations, whether it’s about Bollywood, random rants, funny moments, or just anything that comes to mind.

I want friendships where we can be completely free, honest, and comfortable with each other. A space where we can trust each other, talk without judgment, laugh, overthink together, and make even ordinary moments feel happy and meaningful.

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u/Pale_Quantity9989 — 6 hours ago

20 F Need an emotional support

hello, I made this post because I am tryna get over my narcissistic mother. I keep going to her and got myself shut out over and over again. I realized how much I crave someone who can fulfill that maternal emotional support. I have 0 hopes lol but thought of giving it a shot.
Basically want an online friend who can be my online mother. Idc the gender tho. I just want that level of care and effort.

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u/Business_Concern8139 — 10 hours ago

Looking for friends...

Hello yall. Im a 38, female, from Ohio, looking for other people to be friends with. Im very easy to get along with as well. All I ask is that your cannabis friendly or at least don't mind it. 😊

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u/OhioCountryGirl06 — 9 hours ago

18f, looking for a quick chat

Hey everyone, I'm studying for my last final exam, I'm currently on a break so I thought it'd be nice to chat with someone. We can talk about anything, if you have a topic that'd be great. I prefer talking to people around my age but everyone is welcome

Feel free to dm me :)

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u/swanlake404 — 8 hours ago

23F USA Looking for a lifelong friend (maybe it’s you)

Please be over 18!! Not looking to date!!

Hihi! Lovely to meet you, I hope we can be friends! I’m 23 and I’m from the states (in est)! I’d like to think that I’m a pretty positive person and I wear my heart on my sleeve! I’m also definitely a bit of a yapper and I can be a little clingy, I hope that’s okay!

To be honest, I’m here looking for friends because I’m worried about not having bridesmaids one day. I’ve never really had close girl friends and I feel like I never will. My boyfriend is my best friend and even though we try to do all the ‘girly’ stuff together, it still feels like I’m missing something. I want to have someone that I can talk to about anything, and they can do the same. I really really hope it’s you.

About me: I like music I can sing to (according to Spotify, that's indie pop), cooking and baking, crafts, painting, and video games (pc girlie)! Even if we don’t have a lot in common, I believe there’s more than shared interests that can make a friend!

About you (hopefully): Over 21, in a similar time zone as me (est.), pretty active online, and willing to at least fake laugh at my dad jokes! Also pretty please put your favorite emoji in your message and tell me a little bit about you… because it’s really hard to start a conversation with someone when you know nothing about them!

Thanks for reading, I hope I can hear from you!! :D

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u/geezburner — 8 hours ago

23f and I feel lonely idk what to do

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I have been trying to recover from my breakup lost good friends because of that relationship and yeah life is a Lil tough I feel rn but I hope I will make good friends here

I am doing engineering and basically I like to watch YouTube and also I am a part time tutor hmu with your introduction and not just a hi it would help me to find the vibe and also mention ASL

Thanks :⁠-⁠)

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u/Odd_elec — 8 hours ago

Want a friend

I'm 24F turning 25 this year end. I don't have any friends alike and I am an introvert which makes me overwhelmed continuing conversation with people especially the opposite gender. I don't know if I'd ever make life long friends

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u/Classic-Yogurt7902 — 9 hours ago

20F: On the hunt for some new buddies ♡

Hey all! I'm Mia, a 20-year-old Twitch streamer and hobbyist artist from Governador Valadares, Brazil. I'm half-Japanese, half-Brazilian, and I speak both Brazilian Portuguese and Japanese. As I'd hope you can guess, I can also read/write English! Spoken English could use a whole lot of work, though. Regardless, let me tell you a little about myself...

Considering I stream for a living, I'm sure you could've guessed I'm pretty passionate about games. I've been gaming for as long as I can remember, starting out on a PS1 with a copy of Yu-Gi-Oh! Forbidden Memories. A game I still play and speed-run to this day. I also play a bunch of RPGs such as Yakuza: Like a Dragon, Cyberpunk, Dragon Age: Origins, KOTOR. Pretty much anything with gear progression, damage numbers, and stats to grind out.

I'm also really fond of anime and manga, specifically stuff like Psycho-Pass, Ergo Proxy, Steins;Gate, Cowboy Bebop, Code Geass, Evangelion. I'm currently reading through Chainsaw Man as well, after having watched the anime and the Reze Arc movie. Wanted to continue the story, so yeah!

Beyond all that, I play chess pretty regularly, and I have fun even though I'm trash. I draw a lot, again mostly of anime/manga characters and the like. Adore board games and TCG, sometimes hang around local card shops playing Magic, D&D, or Yu-Gi-Oh!

And finally, I wanna address the fact I'm on a new account. Red flag, understandable, but my main account has links to my stream which I don't feel comfortable connecting with my social life yet. Hope that's understandable! If not, that's totally fine and I wish you the best nonetheless. ♡ (P.S. I thought I'd make some stuff bold to make skimming the post a touch easier. I have a habit of rambling, so.)

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u/Chromiia — 7 hours ago

17F —> 18 in July

Soo I recently graduated and so now I have LOTS of free time but that also means I’m mostly by myself. Ion have many friends, and the ones I’ve made are great! But rarely text me. Some things about me are that I love cats, plushies, coloring, and so much more. I also absolute adore music and can’t live without it! So if you wanna be friends feel free to shoot me a dm =)!!

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u/boredreaderz — 9 hours ago

23M here, just trying to meet some cool people and escape the same routine for a bit.

Lately life’s been feeling kinda repetitive work/study, sleep, repeat and I realized I genuinely miss having random conversations with people. The kind where you suddenly go from talking about music or movies to deep late-night thoughts, relationships, goals, or complete nonsense that somehow becomes interesting.

A little about me: • Into music, sitcoms, binge-worthy series, science, and conversations about life in general

• Pretty chill and easygoing

• Can match energy if the vibe is good

• Open-minded and down to talk about almost anything

Honestly just bored and looking for genuine conversations and new connections. If you’re around my age and feel like talking, drop a comment or send a DM :)

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u/Worried_Mix_8077 — 8 hours ago

21F I feel trapped online because if I go irl there is no one there. Everyone is just online

Look at all these posts online, on youtube, reddit, and various other social medias and websites. And then there are even more people who are just viewers. Think about how many views there are on youtube in total across all videos. There's probably more content on there than we can even comprehend or realize.

When I go in real life, things are so often empty. The sidewalks, porches, parks, libraries. And even the few remaining people that are there are all trying to politely ignore each other. It is so lonely and depressing.

So I am stuck. The internet is lonely and a depressing way to live so I go irl, but there is nothing irl anymore, so I go back online. If I stay irl, what do I even have to do here? The newspaper boxes are empty, the pay phones are gone or disconnected, the mall is abandoned. So I just go online. Even when you ask people a question on reddit, they say "just google it". People are even using reddit less because now they're talking to chat gpt.

I am posting here because I am very alone and in need of friends, and hopefully this community will have a little more sympathy than most of reddit. So, unsympathetic people of reddit, please be kind in the comments. Please don't say "just join groups" or "just stop using the internet" or "just" anything. If people are in need, saying "just" feels quite rude and dismissive.

I'm hoping that other people who feel this way might feel less alone in seeing this. If there's anything that you actually do to combat this loneliness, you can share it. But everyone's situations are different and not everyone has access to the same things so it might not be a solution for everyone.

In short, I just wish that all these people who live on the internet could be in real life and be socially allowed to meet and talk to each other. I'm in Pennsylvania if you want irl friends.

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u/lollipoptart_ — 8 hours ago