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Basically I’m trying to (copy) this assignment which is boringggggg, and I keep getting distracted, so I need someone to just talk to me while I finish this thing up, nothing special just pure yapping, I don’t need to use much brain while copying this so I can talk for long, since it’s a longgg assignment. So yeah, anyone up for talking and has much time? Idk if I’m the most interesting person out there but eh just you know I’m not good at consoling people, and nothing inappropriate please (I have way too much on my plate rather than dealing with reddit degenerates sorry). Anyways I’d like someone closer to my age for relevance and it’s even better if you have much to talk about specifically, also considering I’m a stranger so it’s not like I’ll judge, you wanna rant about your day week month year, go ahead, I won’t tell you even if I judge (hehe). I’m coffee high, and my ADHD is bad bad bad, so yeah if you can deal with this yap away. Drop an intro and something you might wanna yap about, any (hi) etc will be ignored since I’m wayyyyy too tired to start a full blown chat only to loose interest. No dry stuff please and voice chat for people who are confused about what I mean by yapping.

I (23F) want to find people who are into theatre, films and storytelling and maybe start a small creative club of sorts.
I’d love to go watch theatre plays and movies together, discuss films and scripts, brainstorm ideas, and eventually make short films together. I’m especially interested in direction, writing and acting, and I’d also be happy to join existing film or theatre projects and collaborate.
The thing is, when you have absolutely no experience and your friends aren’t really into this stuff, it can be pretty difficult to even get started. So I’m hoping to find other people who are interested, whether you’re a complete beginner or already have some experience and just want more people to create with.
Maybe we could start with a weekly get together in a safe public place and see where it goes from there.
If you’re in Mumbai and this sounds like something you’d be interested in, DM me. You don’t need to have experience, just an interest in films, theatre and actually making things.

Trying to get a group to see where this goes and hopefully like apply to some competitions together.

I (23F) want to find people who are into theatre, films and storytelling and maybe start a small creative club of sorts.
I’d love to go watch theatre plays and movies together, discuss films and scripts, brainstorm ideas, and eventually make short films together. I’m especially interested in direction, writing and acting, and I’d also be happy to join existing film or theatre projects and collaborate.
The thing is, when you have absolutely no experience and your friends aren’t really into this stuff, it can be pretty difficult to even get started. So I’m hoping to find other people who are interested, whether you’re a complete beginner or already have some experience and just want more people to create with.
Maybe we could start with a weekly get together in a safe public place and see where it goes from there.
If you’re in Mumbai and this sounds like something you’d be interested in, DM me. You don’t need to have experience, just an interest in films, theatre and actually making things.

Trying to get a group to see where this goes and hopefully like apply to some competitions together.

I (23F) want to find people who are into theatre, films and storytelling and maybe start a small creative club of sorts.
I’d love to go watch theatre plays and movies together, discuss films and scripts, brainstorm ideas, and eventually make short films together. I’m especially interested in direction, writing and acting, and I’d also be happy to join existing film or theatre projects and collaborate.
The thing is, when you have absolutely no experience and your friends aren’t really into this stuff, it can be pretty difficult to even get started. So I’m hoping to find other people who are interested, whether you’re a complete beginner or already have some experience and just want more people to create with.
Maybe we could start with a weekly get together in a safe public place and see where it goes from there.
If you’re in Mumbai and this sounds like something you’d be interested in, DM me. You don’t need to have experience, just an interest in films, theatre and actually making things.

Edit:- trying to get a group to see where this goes and hopefully like apply to some competitions together.
Also pls just dm me directly~

Well, why do I keep coming back here? Today reminded me of that actually. So basically start of college I put all my effort to mask myself as an extrovert just to get myself into a group, and I thought I finally found one. (Not that I hid I’m an introvert for long) But this year kinda gave me a little bit of glimpse of why I struggle the most as an introvert. Something happened, I couldn’t get the cues I was apparently being a bother (basically didn’t order/eat too much at a fine dining since I didn’t wanna/ budget) and it irked them and at first it was ‘we feel bad seeing u not eat while we were’ and when I told them, ‘hey I was full anyways’, that’s when the real reason came out ‘it messed with our expenses since you didn’t order’. And yeah apparently they’ve all been talking about it at my back, and when I finally asked if anyone’s interested in getting coffee I got called broke as a ‘joke’ and even though I treaded it lightly they turned it into a lesson of hey don’t do this cuz we feel bad etc. At first I fought back mostly through text, but when irl I saw their faces and their vile glances, along with teeth gritting whenever I put my point, I knew I didn’t have a place there. So here I am back at finding friends instead. Since quite frankly I’m a bit burnt out, after putting so much effort and getting this, felt like a background character in my own story….

Came back from a dumb party that just left me hollow (as an introvert that kinda socialisation doesn’t really get me the way I want it to tbh), mostly sat awkwardly and nodded and tried to laugh as much as I can to show ‘hey! I’m blending in, ain’t I?’. But all of it was kinda torturous, came back home with my friend and her date, basically third wheeling\~ wouldn’t have been all that awkward but me being me made it so. (Can’t help it). And I’d rather have a convo rn that actually satiates my soul rather than sleep. Cuz the music playing wouldn’t lemme sleep anyways…. So…. Anyone? I don’t really wanna spoon feed people topics and interests, like we just roll. Just drop a small intro I can probably do something with. And let’s switch to vc after a while.

Came back from a dumb party that just left me hollow (as an introvert that kinda socialisation doesn’t really get me the way I want it to tbh), mostly sat awkwardly and nodded and tried to laugh as much as I can to show ‘hey! I’m blending in, ain’t I?’. But all of it was kinda torturous, came back home with my friend and her date, basically third wheeling~ wouldn’t have been all that awkward but me being me made it so. (Can’t help it). And I’d rather have a convo rn that actually satiates my soul rather than sleep. Cuz the music playing wouldn’t lemme sleep anyways…. So…. Anyone? I don’t really wanna spoon feed people topics and interests, like we just roll. Just drop a small intro I can probably do something with. And let’s switch to vc after a while.

Hello! I’ve always been very interested in filmmaking (writing/ direction/ acting) but lack of consistency and not being able to get into film school, coupled with not conventional looks for films got me discouraged and sent me into a writers block for years. Now that I’m in Mumbai for engineering (agh), I’d like to join anyone who’s making short films/ anyyy films (keeping in mind I have no experience and am a complete beginner) I’d love to be a part of your work and contribute somehow, or just be a part of that set since most advice I’ve gotten is best way to learn stuff is to be a part of the process. So if it’s not a bother I’d love to join! And possibly be part of any creative groups or discussion! If anyone has any openings for complete beginners pls text me I’ll tell you my free timings from my dumb ass college schedule!
Edit: I’m sorry guys but I’m not making a team, I’m just trying to join people who are already working on something..

So basically I get disengaged with stuff due to ADHD and although it makes my conversations interesting my attention doesn’t work the same way while studying or working. So I’ll like someone I can talk to generally everyday while both of us do things maybe? It also works as body doubling for me and honestly I crave deep conversations about random stuff. I’m trying to cut my Instagram use off and stop short form content at some point hopefully completely to minimal use. (As a creative person I can’t really get rid of it forever) but I’d like to use it with my autonomy rather than being influenced by impulses and I feel like talking helps a lot. Although I do have this habit of scrolling while talking but I believe it’ll stop if the conversations are going well enough. I mean vc btw!

And some stuff about me, I’m an artist who’s currently studying engineering (started late asf), I don’t hate it tho, kinda like it! I like music a lot, like a lot, it runs my day, influences my mood and enhances my emotions (not that I’m already not an emotional bomb) . Recently started learning classical music vocals and I like it tho I need a lot of practice. I wanna be a filmmaker someday since I love movies, and that’s been like a dreammmm. Not that I’ve made anything tho, all on paper that I don’t really like to share. So yeah, too much info about me and at the same time not enough, like not really me me iykyk. I like to reply to meaningful answers since yk ultimately conversations initially require a lot of effort to pull off, so yeah a good intro would make my life easier. Age cap (20-27) for my sanity, sorry but I cannot handle weirdos to save my life, I like peace.. anyways, have a good day! Bye! ☆彡

So basically I get disengaged with stuff due to ADHD and although it makes my conversations interesting my attention doesn’t work the same way while studying or working. So I’ll like someone I can talk to generally everyday while both of us do things maybe? It also works as body doubling for me and honestly I crave deep conversations about random stuff. I’m trying to cut my Instagram use off and stop short form content at some point hopefully completely to minimal use. (As a creative person I can’t really get rid of it forever) but I’d like to use it with my autonomy rather than being influenced by impulses and I feel like talking helps a lot. Although I do have this habit of scrolling while talking but I believe it’ll stop if the conversations are going well enough. I mean vc btw!

And some stuff about me, I’m an artist who’s currently studying engineering (started late asf), I don’t hate it tho, kinda like it! I like music a lot, like a lot, it runs my day, influences my mood and enhances my emotions (not that I’m already not an emotional bomb) . Recently started learning classical music vocals and I like it tho I need a lot of practice. I wanna be a filmmaker someday since I love movies, and that’s been like a dreammmm. Not that I’ve made anything tho, all on paper that I don’t really like to share. So yeah, too much info about me and at the same time not enough, like not really me me iykyk. I like to reply to meaningful answers since yk ultimately conversations initially require a lot of effort to pull off, so yeah a good intro would make my life easier. Age cap (20-27) for my sanity, sorry but I cannot handle weirdos to save my life, I like peace.. anyways, have a good day! Bye! ☆彡

So basically I get disengaged with stuff due to ADHD and although it makes my conversations interesting my attention doesn’t work the same way while studying or working. So I’ll like someone I can talk to generally everyday while both of us do things maybe? It also works as body doubling for me and honestly I crave deep conversations about random stuff. I’m trying to cut my Instagram use off and stop short form content at some point hopefully completely to minimal use. (As a creative person I can’t really get rid of it forever) but I’d like to use it with my autonomy rather than being influenced by impulses and I feel like talking helps a lot. Although I do have this habit of scrolling while talking but I believe it’ll stop if the conversations are going well enough. I mean vc btw!

And some stuff about me, I’m an artist who’s currently studying engineering (started late asf), I don’t hate it tho, kinda like it! I like music a lot, like a lot, it runs my day, influences my mood and enhances my emotions (not that I’m already not an emotional bomb) . Recently started learning classical music vocals and I like it tho I need a lot of practice. I wanna be a filmmaker someday since I love movies, and that’s been like a dreammmm. Not that I’ve made anything tho, all on paper that I don’t really like to share. So yeah, too much info about me and at the same time not enough, like not really me me iykyk. I like to reply to meaningful answers since yk ultimately conversations initially require a lot of effort to pull off, so yeah a good intro would make my life easier. Age cap (20-27) for my sanity, sorry but I cannot handle weirdos to save my life, I like peace.. anyways, have a good day! Bye! ☆彡

I mean I just wanna talk so we can talk about food maybe? Or languages (I’m just bilingual so not much experience), or how I’m ruining my ca- someone give me some solid career advice pls. I like knowing about people’s interesting or boring stories- hey! stories are stories okay!

I have these anxiety inducing periods where all I wanna do is talk to people, and it’s quite ironic actually since I’m an introvert and need a lot of space and quiet to numb down my mind, but still everyday there’s like a time period where I’m like ah someone talk to me or lemme just blurt out stuff or something.

We can talk about nice things, I’m kinda tired of being people’s dumpster of sad thingsss I just wanna yap about neutral or happy things. I don’t want all that anxiety inducing rants rn. Like Ik some people want that in friends and I do like to support my friends but Idts I’m the right person today… okay so too many ‘I’s.

Let’s go with what do you wanna talk about? Pls drop a nice intro that I can answer too, nothing too resume style just what you do, where you live (so I can sta-) I mean just for context. What are the things you might like or dislike. Any books you liked (pls don’t say self help books or Dostoevsky idk people who read these always have a weird way to speak jsss saying) . If you’re a creative (cuz I like to say I am- ah too tired of sharing tho) it’ll be nice if people read the whole thing cause if u can’t read such short stuff idk if u can sustain a conversation. But anyways. Gonna drop an age limit (20-27) for my own sanity, pls be kind. And yeah long term friends, preferably a bit stubborn like me, although yeah I can only reply to limited people with my attention span\~\~\~

As a student who’s old af compared to her peers, away from home in a different city, I’m always surrounded by people, yet I feel like an outcast sometimes. I don’t know if I’m cracking the right kind of jokes, if I’m saying the right things or not. Having spent so much of my time in my hometown, especially the 17-21 window, when people develop certain kinds of personalities, even when I meet my old friends from school, I feel like they’re different people now, with experiences I missed out on. So even though I’m here now, where I was supposed to be four years ago, it makes me feel like I’m still back home, looking at all of this from behind a screen. I have different priorities from the people around me, and there’s this feeling that I’ll never truly belong anywhere, since I didn’t have the head start I needed.

Not to mention, I carry the burden of fallen dreams, like I’m in some race I never even wanted to take part in. Whatever dream I had is on standby forever. I always feel empty, and I try to fill that emptiness with superficial things like food and outings, and end up broke and unsatisfied. Makes me wonder if I even want to do these things in the first place. When I’m always zoned out and performing, do I even want those things? And I keep reminding myself that if I don’t do these things now, it’ll be too late later.

When people ask me things like oh, did you want to be a filmmaker? Did you write something? Paint something? Make something? What’s your favorite film? All I feel is that I’m some shell of the person I tell everyone I am. The shame of not being able to make it made me stop doing anything I loved. Even the idea of starting again, and not being good enough, makes me anxious. How do I tell them I have nothing to show? Makes me wonder why I even tell people I like those things. Any normal person, when they pick something up and then stop, just leaves it at that. But for some reason, I can’t separate these things from my identity. I think about them day and night, I even have ideas and inspiration, but I can’t put them down on paper.

So yeah, anyone in a similar position? I’d love to listen and bond over it. Not trauma-bonding till it gets too sad, that gets to be too much for me. At the end of the day, I want friends, obviously. But maybe some light talk about all of this too.

And if you’ve read this post till here, thank you. I’m gonna put an age cap for relatability (20-27). Please be kind, and I don’t think I’ll be responding to anything disrespectful. (Also- India for whoever it bothers)

As a student who’s old af compared to her peers, away from home in a different city, I’m always surrounded by people, yet I feel like an outcast sometimes. I don’t know if I’m cracking the right kind of jokes, if I’m saying the right things or not. Having spent so much of my time in my hometown, especially the 17-21 window, when people develop certain kinds of personalities, even when I meet my old friends from school, I feel like they’re different people now, with experiences I missed out on. So even though I’m here now, where I was supposed to be four years ago, it makes me feel like I’m still back home, looking at all of this from behind a screen. I have different priorities from the people around me, and there’s this feeling that I’ll never truly belong anywhere, since I didn’t have the head start I needed.

Not to mention, I carry the burden of fallen dreams, like I’m in some race I never even wanted to take part in. Whatever dream I had is on standby forever. I always feel empty, and I try to fill that emptiness with superficial things like food and outings, and end up broke and unsatisfied. Makes me wonder if I even want to do these things in the first place. When I’m always zoned out and performing, do I even want those things? And I keep reminding myself that if I don’t do these things now, it’ll be too late later.

When people ask me things like oh, did you want to be a filmmaker? Did you write something? Paint something? Make something? What’s your favorite film? All I feel is that I’m some shell of the person I tell everyone I am. The shame of not being able to make it made me stop doing anything I loved. Even the idea of starting again, and not being good enough, makes me anxious. How do I tell them I have nothing to show? Makes me wonder why I even tell people I like those things. Any normal person, when they pick something up and then stop, just leaves it at that. But for some reason, I can’t separate these things from my identity. I think about them day and night, I even have ideas and inspiration, but I can’t put them down on paper.

So yeah, anyone in a similar position? I’d love to listen and bond over it. Not trauma-bonding till it gets too sad, that gets to be too much for me. At the end of the day, I want friends, obviously. But maybe some light talk about all of this too.

And if you’ve read this post till here, thank you. I’m gonna put an age cap for relatability (20-27). Please be kind, and I don’t think I’ll be responding to anything disrespectful. (Also- India for whoever it bothers)

Ah idk man… I should be asleep by now but I cannot sleep. For the past few weeks I’d just yap with a friend who I don’t talk to anymore and now there’s a hollow where the friend was supposed to be (ik i just am a dumbo). And yeah I just get attached to friends and routines and practices a lot…

So yeah, we can yap about a lot of things, weird days/life?!? Something you watched? We can even watch The amazing Spider-Man and I can yap about why Andrew Garfield is my fav Spider-Man of all time… We can talk about how either of our day(s) going bad. About what food you like, dumb childhood memories or just yk whatever stuff in your mind you don’t have a place to put into. Like okay lemme give you an example… I love to write and do art and sing but for the past few years after not making into film school I just can’t. Like I physically can’t. Sure there’s been exceptions but nothing like I used to. Here you go, what about you? Anything that has changed the trajectory of life or altered your sense of craft?

You don’t need to have an amazing job or interesting af hobbies, could be a boring routine (like mine) I have a pretty boring college to home ratio, so idk what new things to introduce everyday, although I do get some tea sometimes but eh not that interesting, so don’t let that stop you from texting, a boring intro (like mine) is still an intro. I think us people with monotonous routines are most calming to talk to tbh.

Also just to be fair doesn’t need to be some deep aah talk tbh, some nice rambling would work too. And doesn’t need to be a midnight thing, since I would answer later too, just wouldn’t be able to answer everyone since I have limits on my own attention and idts dry texting would be satiating enough for me rn. My brain is wayyy too noisy at the moment. And it doesn’t truly have to be some sad kinda conversation, something nice would work too. I believe I need some initial efforts for any conversation to begin and run, like some serious initiative, so that’d be nice and what else? Yeah I have a presentation soon which I need to get over with but for some weird reason my spontaneous speaking skills have died for English (second language things) so it’d be nice to yap and get back to it ig, def need some practice. (I mean vc eventually)

Also if you’re texting please drop an intro in my dms that I can respond to since idk what to say to a hi or some random question that even if I answer the texts would go dry just after. So an intro please. (Im gonna consider that as in indication that you read my post…) I’m from India for whoever that cares since I’m too tired to deal with weirdos. Also an age cap (20-27) to keep things relevant and safe.

I’m tired of trying to make friends any other way tbh. It doesn’t work. Such dryyyy dryyy conversations… so ykw… just drop your own life lore. If you need an ear (not literally sorry), and you wanna talk about something you can’t with irl friends (nothing weird idk why these post attracts weird folks) or something you’re too hurt to talk about with people idk, just go ahead and spill. It’s not like I’m gonna meet you, I’d rather listen to people.

I’m tired, burnt out, too overwhelmed to study, to broke to go out with irl friends, too introverted to make new ones, and absolutely too lazy to get a job. So I’d rather listen to people yap about their lives. Doesn’t have to be some crazy interesting thing. Could be just a rant you’re too embarrassed to admit or some weird decision or story (just make sure it’s yours for the connect ig) and we roll. We can do both texts and potentially a vc later idk idm. But yeah let’s do\~\~\~ (gonna put a cap of 20-27) for my own mental health due to past experiences (I want friends my age). To be perfectly clear ik im bored but you don’t need to entertain me or anything im perfectly capable of hearing slow stories and it can go at your pace. As long as there is mutual messaging, I continue to respond mostly. So yeah, just send me an intro of you and what you wanna yap about if you want me to talk… (I don’t have anything to rant or any interesting life story rn so if you’re knocking on my door expecting it… I’m sorry to disappoint..)

And sorry if im not able to respond to every message, I’d like to focus on a few and ik these subReddits have a weird gender ratio and there tends to be spam in the dms which I don’t wish to engage with tbh.. so I’d try to respond to only meaningful stuff… and yeah pls do ask me any questions and I’d try to answer as long as its not too much.

I’m tired of trying to make friends any other way tbh. It doesn’t work. Such dryyyy dryyy conversations… so ykw… just drop your own life lore. If you need an ear (not literally sorry), and you wanna talk about something you can’t with irl friends (nothing weird idk why these post attracts weird folks) or something you’re too hurt to talk about with people idk, just go ahead and spill. It’s not like I’m gonna meet you, I’d rather listen to people.

I’m tired, burnt out, too overwhelmed to study, to broke to go out with irl friends, too introverted to make new ones, and absolutely too lazy to get a job. So I’d rather listen to people yap about their lives. Doesn’t have to be some crazy interesting thing. Could be just a rant you’re too embarrassed to admit or some weird decision or story (just make sure it’s yours for the connect ig) and we roll. We can do both texts and potentially a vc later idk idm. But yeah let’s do~~~ (gonna put a cap of 20-27) for my own mental health due to past experiences (I want friends my age). To be perfectly clear ik im bored but you don’t need to entertain me or anything im perfectly capable of hearing slow stories and it can go at your pace. As long as there is mutual messaging, I continue to respond mostly. So yeah, just send me an intro of you and what you wanna yap about if you want me to talk… (I don’t have anything to rant or any interesting life story rn so if you’re knocking on my door expecting it… I’m sorry to disappoint..)

And sorry if im not able to respond to every message, I’d like to focus on a few and ik these subReddits have a weird gender ratio and there tends to be spam in the dms which I don’t wish to engage with tbh.. so I’d try to respond to only meaningful stuff… and yeah pls do ask me any questions and I’d try to answer as long as its not too much.

Eh so basically finding a yapping buddy is a once in a million phenomenon ik—— like it’s sooo difficult like wdym timings must match, vibes must match, you need to be engaging to each other, compatibility styles in communication, belief systems, things you find weird blah blah blah. Like there’s soooo many things, especially with Reddit like one thing bad and boom the convo goes dry and you’re just waiting for the other person. If you’re like me then you don’t have any non chalant bone in yo body (yep none) then u either weird people out or make them feel you’re too easy for weird intentions or or or idk tbh, like it’s so rareeee. And that’s why it’s so exhausting. But yeah here you go, another try like another ball in the court ish- so yeah I’m gonna drop my lame ass intro here\~

So aghhhhh okay ummm so anyways here it is-
I’m an engineering student (it’s so tiring to just get ‘sameee’ texts and then all 22F (India) Lost my regular yapping buddy need a new oneee

Eh so basically finding a yapping buddy is a once in a million phenomenon ik—— like it’s sooo difficult like wdym timings must match, vibes must match, you need to be engaging to each other, compatibility styles in communication, belief systems, things you find weird blah blah blah. Like there’s soooo many things, especially with Reddit like one thing bad and boom the convo goes dry and you’re just waiting for the other person. If you’re like me then you don’t have any non chalant bone in yo body (yep none) then u either weird people out or make them feel you’re too easy for weird intentions or or or idk tbh, like it’s so rareeee. And that’s why it’s so exhausting. But yeah here you go, another try like another ball in the court ish- so yeah I’m gonna drop my lame ass intro here\~

So aghhhhh okay ummm so anyways here it is-
I’m an engineering student (it’s so tiring to just get ‘sameee’ texts and then all we do is talk about the same things and I’m like bro bro I’m a late student I’m living the days you’re reminiscing). And I’m a creative of sort- art- writing- and and other stuff- don’t ask- I don’t draw or write as much as I talk about it or think about it and when people are like sendddd all it does is get me anxious and then I go confused if I should even call myself an artist or a writer. I love filmmaking but I’ve not seen most of the movies, when asked about ohhh what’s yo fav film I always go blank and my letterboxd is rotting. Eh I’m also learning classical music (don’t ask I’m a bad singer okay), and a few other things. So if you wanna talk and it’s like you don’t even have to be a creative or have something common with me. You’re an introvert?!? Even better so am I. (My friends were asked in school if I’m mute). But yeah I do yap a lot once I get in the zone. You do something completely different than me or are from a completely different background from me, but can tickle the point in my brain that makes me wanna yap everyday? Yay I’m gonna be there same time, everyday. I like learning new things or facts and stuff and idk man just text tbh. What else. And yeah I’m not as weird or crazy as I sound in this post, pretty normal usually lol and if you’re looking for a sign to text someone while you’re not used to convos then here you go- start from something a bit eccentric ig. Gonna put down an age limit (20-27), pls be appropriate and patient, I need it like a lot. Pls put down an intro I can respond to (it’s like compulsory) and I meant yapping as in bc not texts (texts burn me out after a while) Goodbye.

I’m looking for some film watching buddies who like to talk and discuss stuff in between too. I like talking about day to day stuff and new things in life and if you like the same let’s do it?

So a bit about me. (Honestly too tiring to talk about myself like some resume again and again and I like spontaneous conversations where we share stuff on the go more) but anyways, I’m an engineering student (ik too many of us out there), artist (plssss don’t ask me to share art aaah it feels draining), I write, I’m learning classical music (beginner stuff). I like to pick up on new hobbies and continue them forever, I like to watch movies and I like to meet new people and hear their experiences. I like discussing art and films and making new friends.

Even if you’re an introvert no matter (so am I irl, a huge one with enough social anxiety for some classmates to ask my friend if I can’t speak at all). Although yeah once I get comfortable I like to talk, like a lot and say a lot of dumb stuff. As someone who’s been on reddit for a WHILEEE and made a lot of friends again and again (older accounts), I both am and not used to losing them, sometimes I miss the old Reddit where things were easier and people genuinely wanted to talk to you, what I’ve felt nowadays is people just text you for the dopamine of a reply, but eh still worth it to find some good people.

I don’t have any specifics for you except maybe open to conversation? And an age cap for my own sanity (20-27), although idm talking to older women, they’ve always given me some nice advice, kiddos on the other hand a complete no no- please be kind and if you like to have a good laugh and long conversations pls do reach out. I like a normal person with limited attention span of this age would like to only respond to a limited few to actually focus on the conversation and pls do give me a good intro so I can start, no need for a resume style, just normal intro with some stuff about you so I can respond to it (plus points if you’re a creative tho I’m not biased, as soon as someone interests me I respond without any reason).