r/GetMotivatedBuddies

I’m also deep in exam prep right now, which means a lot of hours of studying 😭. I have ADHD, so staying consistent can be a whole adventure, and sometimes I spiral into anxiety when things feel overwhelming. Having someone who can keep me accountable, motivated, and remind me to not be too hard on myself would genuinely mean a lot.

In return, I’d love to be that person for someone too cheering you on, listening to your random thoughts, celebrating the little wins, and making the stressful days feel a bit lighter.

I've been going to the gym for a while but stopped and I can't get back to it! If I have someone who will give me some gold stars for even going, I would be so happy! I give gold stars, too!

I've had two strokes, brain surgery, heart surgery, and a total/radical hysterectomy. If I got through all that, I can keep going. :)

Hiiii

I'm looking for someone (female) who have similar goals, I'm already in my schedule I just want someone to do it together since my motivation is dwindling! [3 months timeline]

I have done this before but as I still need to still continue I'm here again since it worked last time.

Goals:

Wake up at 6/ sleep at 10

Study for 7 hrs

-I study in the morning but that's only an hour (6:30-7:30am)

-In the afternoon I do deep focus with one 20 mins break between 1-5pm)

- language study 6-8pm

Walk + water + exercise goals

I'm open to body doubling if any one is looking for a buddy!

Please msg only if you're serious, and not disappearing halfway through.

Hi I want to overcome my dependency on added sugar for dopamine. I need an accountability partner for the next two weeks because the first few days are very hard and there will be lots of cravings. If someone has done this then he/she can share the experience and hacks which worked for them. Thanks

Hi all :) f25 in syd working full time and studying part time for chartered accountancy.

It will take me like 3 years.

My main issue is consistency with studying so I'm thinking 1 hour on weekdays (probably between 7-8pm) and then we can organise something for weekends perhaps? but not super necessary.

Preferably friendly and cam on (if we study together over zoom, for example). Prefer someone also AEST but if you are okay with the times listed above then it's okay.

I've noticed some people are looking for company while working - I'm open to this as well. I won't talk while studying, but happy to chat for five minutes before/after/during pomodoro break.

Thanks for reading

Let’s do this. Looking to build strength. Tired of just being skinny. Shoot me a msg.

I work in marketing at an AI product company at an associate director level.

I’m working on:

1. ⁠Applying for more jobs (my current one sucks and the economy is shitty) and/or launching other streams of income.
2. ⁠Eat less sugar. I have a decent workout and diet routine. Trainer et al. But, I’m giving in to sugar cravings. 😭
3. ⁠Keeping up with my therapy work. I take somatic therapy. My therapist has set some independent work for me that I struggle to start. Ugh.

Accountability structure:
Look, I’ll be honest. I’m lost here. The last time I had an accountability partner, it was awesome. I was able to learn a lot from her. For now, I only do to-do lists. I need to get back to setting goals and sticking to them. It’s overwhelming.

I’d ideally like a 10-15 min check-in daily (except Sundays) via calls for a few weeks. Then chat is fine.

Let me know if this sounds good. If it does, please respond with some details about yourself, your goals, specifically. We can plan.

I am looking for someone to define our goals, plan our weeks, have daily check-ins and keep each other motivated.

I’m taking on a pretty big goal: lose 50 kg and I think having one person to check in with every day could make a huge difference.

Not looking for a coach or mentor. Just a guy who’s also working towards something and is willing to actually show up consistently.

The deal is pretty simple:

• Quick daily check-in — Did you do what you said you would?

• Weekly weight update

• Share progress, setbacks and wins

• Keep each other honest when motivation disappears

• No ghosting after 3 days.

I’m looking for a consistent and mutually motivating friend. Two people checking in, doing the work, and making sure neither one quietly gives up.

If this sounds like something you’d actually enjoy, DM me.

Tell me what you’re working towards and let’s see if we’re a good accountability match. 👊

I am just now getting back into the gym after a shoulder injury and want to prioritize all the fitness I’ve lost out on.

Looking to make fitness my priority for the rest of the year so having someone with similar goals to regularly check in with would be awesome.

I lift, train BJJ/judo and I’m also trying to prep for hyrox all while still somewhat injured. It’s a lot but all very half assed at the moment.

My ideal person would be stern and focused but also goofy and kind. Also, my humor is fucked so no debbie downers or people who can’t take a joke! :)

Looking for a body double/study buddy for the next ~10 hours. I have an exam coming up and need to lock in for a long study session.

Planning to study in focused blocks with short breaks in between. We don’t have to study the same subject. I mainly want someone who’s also serious about getting work done so we can keep each other accountable.

What I’m looking for:

• Camera on is preferred over zoom, but we can stay muted most of the time
• Quick check-ins between sessions: what we finished + what we’re doing next
• I’m starting right now (IST). If you’re procrastinating and need someone else on screen to force you to sit down and work, DM me.

Goal for today: survive the next 10 hours and get an unreasonable amount of studying done.

Looking for a HabitShare app -*not promoting the app-*buddy, preferably female. Just to use inside the app, doesn’t have to be the same goal.

Hi! I am looking for an accountability partner for a fitness and glow-up journey. I'm 29, working on weight loss, improving my skincare/hair care routines, building confidence, and creating healthier habits. I'd love someone who can help me work on a fitness routine and can check in a few times a week, share goals, celebrate wins, and keep each other motivated. To be honest, I have no clue what I am doing, so someone that can help guide me on my goals is also a plus!

Edit: I think I found a partner, or at least a few different wonderful people to work with as partners. I wasn‘t expecting this much response, thank you!

posted 2 days ago but couldn’t catch up due to some work hence posting today

looking for consistency partner

I've been stuck in life for the past like 2 years and really wanna get my shi together now because I just am really fckin annoyed with my introverted self that I can't get anything done. I procrastinate a lot (thanks recently diagnosed adhd) and because of that, I am looking for someone similar to keep each other accountable. I notice that I am more productive when there is a person just existing in the room with me or somewhere whom I can tell what I wanna do/did that day. Would be nice if we are in the same time zone +/-2h and maybe stick with each other until like the end of the year or even longer.

My basic daily goals at the moment are (might adjust as time goes on):

• consistent sleep + shower BEFORE bed
• workout daily or equivalent activity. I managed to do 6 months of consistent workouts and saw good progress, but fell off and now really struggle to get back to it.
• eat enough/hit macros
• do something creative (used to play Bass and do 3D art. Wanna get into both again)
• do something for my career (study/apply for stuff/work on certificates/email people)

For chatting, I would want to stay on reddit because I am on here at least once per day anyway (for the 600 day streak achievement lol).

I thought of sending a list in the morning of what we want to do today and then a message in the evening of what we actually did. And maybe even a msg on the weekends to plan for the next week like "need to do xyz next week. Will try to do x by thursday and y and z by friday. Also, I need to do abc at some point this week, too."

And if we notice that the other person keeps putting off a task for a few days in a row, remind them to do it.

I am a dry texter/not good at keeping conversations lol and I don't expect you to be either. It is fine by me if we just send these lists, but if you wanna text more, go ahead, and I'll try to be social.

Hi, I'm looking for someone who is working on their professional/educational goals.

I'm working the IT sector and trying to switch jobs. With this current job market, I'm having a very hard time about it. There are 2 things I'm struggling with:

I tend to lose motivation or get distracted by other things. Body doubling works for me quite well. On weekdays, I am available from 8 PM onwards, and all day on weekends.

Even if you're not available for body doubling, a simple accountability partner will help as well. Someone who can check in every day once or twice, and offer encouragement. I'll do the same for you.

hello I’m trying to be consistent , if you’re on the same path dm

Hey! I’m looking for a serious study partner to keep each other accountable and actually get some work done.

I’d ideally like to do study-on-cam sessions from 12 PM to 6 PM (GMT+5:30). I’m available to study at other times too, but during that 12–6 window I can generally be more consistent and uninterrupted.

The idea is pretty simple:

• Join a call with cameras on
• Study quietly together
• Take breaks when needed
• Quick check-ins/goals if you’re into that
• No pressure to constantly talk — the main goal is just getting work done

I’m preparing for interviews, so Im looking for someone who’s genuinely trying to build consistency rather than just having occasional study sessions.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me with what you are studying, and your usual schedule. :)

Hey all, 23M from India here.

Honestly, I’m at a point where I’m tired of repeating the same habits and I really want to change.

The #1 thing I want to quit is porn and compulsive masturbation. I feel like it’s been taking away my focus, energy, time and motivation, and I want to finally get control over it.

At the same time, I want to start getting serious about:

🏋️ Going to the gym

🧠 Building discipline

❤️ Improving my health

💼 Growing my business/career

📱 Cutting down on useless scrolling

🔥 Becoming a better version of myself

I’m not looking for some perfect, super-disciplined person. I’m far from perfect myself 😂.

I’m looking for someone who’s also trying to improve their life and wants a real accountability buddy.

We can check in daily or a few times a week, talk about our progress, share our wins and failures, and keep each other accountable.

If you’re trying to quit porn, build better habits, get fit, work on your career/business, or just get your life more under control — let’s help each other out.

I’m from India, so someone from India would be cool, but I’m open to anyone who’s serious about it.

No judgment, no preaching. Just two people trying to become better. 🤝

DM me if you’re interested.

Hey! I’m looking for someone to build a consistent reading habit with. I have ADHD and it’s pretty hard for me to stick to habits and initiating tasks, so having someone to keep each other accountable would help a lot. Ideally looking for a long-term buddy we can also build other habits together like meditating, learning etc., if we have the same goals. Nothing too serious, just casual check-ins and supporting each other. Anyone interested? :)