29f - US - can we be internet besties or something 😖

honestly, i’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately and i miss having someone i can just talk to. someone i can text about my day, tell random little things to, call when i’m off work, or keep company while we’re both doing our own thing.

i’m a mom of 3, an english major in school full time, and i just started working as an oil technician around 50-60 hours a week, so my life is pretty busy between work, school, and mom stuff. but even with all that going on, i still find myself wishing i had someone to talk to at the end of the day.

i’m socially awkward and a little shy at first, but i really do want to connect with people. i feel like making friends as an adult is so hard, especially when it seems like people are interested in talking for a little while and then just disappear. i know life gets busy, and i don’t expect someone to be available 24/7, but i’d love a friendship where we actually make an effort to keep in touch and get to know each other.

i like gaming, reading, horror and fantasy, metal, thrifting, bookstores, iced lattes, and rambling about whatever random thing i’m currently hyperfixated on lol.

i just want a friend i can be myself around. someone who wants to hear about the little things, who will tell me about their day too, and who doesn’t make me feel like i’m bothering them by reaching out. i want the kind of friendship where we can go from strangers to being part of each other’s everyday lives.

if you’re lonely too, or just looking for someone genuine to talk to, i’d really love to hear from you.

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u/subbysoapy — 8 days ago

29 f/cst/ switch - let’s play some games and hang out? :)

currently my pc is a bit messed up, so solely gaming on switch 2.

looking for people to play Overwatch, Palia, and Animal crossing New Horizons.

i’m pretty newish to overwatch, i played in 2016 but haven’t touched it since, right now im solely doing quick play (unsure what other modes there are) and im just practicing, and learning the new characters!

new to palia and would love someone to play with as i dont quite understand what im doing lol!

and acnh, i just restarted but would love love love friends to play with :)

dm if you’re interested, or have some other games in mind!!

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u/subbysoapy — 4 months ago

29F/CST, steam deck gamer looking for friends to play steam games with :)

yoyo, i’m lumi.

i’m 29 and my time zone is central. i solely play on steam deck at the moment. I have a small friend group i occasionally play with but looking to branch out and make new friends.

games i’m currently playing would be:
Overwatch, Stardew Valley, Sunhaven, Palia.

game i have downloaded but haven’t played much (but would like to) if at all:
baldurs gate 3, path of exile, subnautica 2, palworld, hello kitty island adventure, eternal return, coral island, fae farm.

honorable mention for dota 2, i have it downloaded and going to see if i can set up a layout for controller but not sure currently.

also interested in possibly playing other games, this is just what i have downloaded! i have a pretty big steam library (i think 300ish games).

mainly looking for chill vibes for some games and fun coms, im pretty shy but i do open up! not extremely competitive, just play for fun. :) please be at least 25+ in age, im almost 30 lol.

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u/subbysoapy — 4 months ago
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29[F4A] #alabama #online shy extrovert seeking friendly companionship!

helllllllo,

i’m lumi. i’m 29 and live in alabama. i’m desperately in need of daily conversation with a friend.

i am a shy extrovert, the caveat to that is i can be quite socially awkward. I am a very big empath and a caring person. i am a single mom. i am a big nerd and all around just very much a gamer. i spend majority of my time resting at the moment since im not working at the moment, or playing video games when i can. i am very much a social gamer.

hobbies im into would include video games (league of legends, overwatch, and valorant are what im playing recently), i read a ton of romance and thriller books, i enjoy listening to indie folk or indie pop like adrianne lenker and the maria’s, i really enjoy sitting outside in the sunshine, hiking when its not raining, i sometimes do digital art, i also really enjoy hiking and trying new foods. id be down to watch a movie, or play a game while we voice chat.

im really just looking for someone(s) to hit it off with and become friends! just chit chat and become a part of each others day to day. looking for someone 26+ who lives in the US so we have similar time zones. :)

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u/subbysoapy — 4 months ago

NA - support main looking for adc for normal drafts with my friend group.

hiii. im lumi. im a support main who plays pretty much everyday (only draft, i dont play ranked) in the afternoons and evenings 1pm-1am cst. i usually play supports like janna, lulu, and leona. recently playing a lot of renata glasc and wanting to main her, but realizing that i need someone i can talk to in lane.

there’s usually 3-4 of us but adc is always left open, and being in a lane with a random can be hard. i want to be able to have more lane coordination, especially for renata.

im looking for chill lobbies, no tilt, and just fun games. if we hit it off we can def play other games outside of league too.

my ign is soapy petals #uwu , please be over 25+. please be open to playing with a group, and vc. :)

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u/subbysoapy — 4 months ago

29f/cst i play on steam deck & i’m looking for steam friends 🎮

yo yo.

i’m lumi. i’m 29f, and live in NA.

I don’t have a pc right now so i run all my games on my steam deck through desktop mode. I can’t play a lot of the games i usually play (stuff that solely runs on windows), so i’m trying to branch out. Right now the multiplayer games i have on steam are Arc Raiders, Baldurs Gate 3, Coral Island, Core Keeper, Elden Ring, Night Reign, Risk of Rain, and Stardew valley. That being said, i recently started playing Deadlock, Dota 2, and CS2 and i am looking for friends to primarily play competitive multiplayer games in a chill lobby.

I played my first few games of deadlock today and really enjoyed it! Rem, Paige, Silver (?) are super fun to play. I haven’t played counter strike 2 in a long long long time but would like to get back into it. As for dota, i’ve played quite a bit but im still a noob lol.
i just bought subnautica 2 and have never played the others so it would be fun to dive into that. maybe occasionally pick up RoR or BG3, ER.

outside of games im not working right now, so i have a lot of free time. not looking for anything romantic and just want some chill friends. I like music a lot, really all types but i gravitate towards metal and indie. I also like reading horror books/manga, watching anime and youtube, and hiking in my free time.

let’s be friends!

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u/subbysoapy — 5 months ago
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hihi. i’m from alabama and im 29.

I’m a 5’0, chubby, short green haired and alt. i wear circle rimmed glasses that are rose gold. I have pretty honey colored eyes, and small lips. I have 5 facial piercings (4 nose, septum, above upper lip and in the middle of my bottom lip). I have some health issues, I’m a bit sick but taking care of myself! I am a mom of some super kewl kiddos. & I am a huge nerd, through and through. I’ve recently moved in with family after a rough year and i’m in the process of getting on my feet, going back to school and finding work.

For hobbies, I’d say my biggest ones are gaming, hiking, and listening to new music.

The games I play are Magic the Gathering, League of Legends, Final Fantasy XIV, Valorant, and WoW. I recently got back into playing league and i’m pretty new to valorant but taking time off of wow. I just started a new character on XIV and it’s my first time playing, it’s been so fun.

i like going hiking so i can feel the sunshine on my face, cooking up some yummy southern food, and doing digital art (taken a backseat). I am pretty much a homebody but i do like to go out when im feeling stuffed up inside.

I’m looking for someone i can talk to and get to know, and someone who’s kind, patient and understanding. I’m really shy at first but I want to find someone i can be myself with. Whether that be watching some anime, getting my butt kicked in commander or curling up and eating chinese food while i watch you play games. Please be 27-37 age ranged, and able to hold a conversation. 🩷

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u/subbysoapy — 5 months ago

hi, i’m lumi.
i’m looking for people to play league with.

i play normal draft and swift usually, mostly playing support, but would like to try other roles! looking for good vibes, non tilt lobbies. been playing for a few years and just play for fun.

outside of league i play xiv, and wow, and really just am all around upbeat and cheery.

add me!

soapy petals #uwu

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u/subbysoapy — 5 months ago

yo-yo!

i’m lumi, i’m 29 and live in the southern US.

I recently got into ffxiv. I’m on data center primal/excalibur world. I’m playing through the MSQ right now, and I’m a level 31 monk! I’m also leveling rogue, and would like to level arcanist and conjurer.

Really just looking for friends to play with, i’m on pretty much any time of day, and play every day.

outside of XIV, i play league of legends mostly and some wow! I’m pretty upbeat and cheery, just looking to meet new people as i don’t really have friends that play XIV!

I’m in an FC, but don’t really know anyone, so open to trying new FCs :).

anyways! hope to hear from yall!

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u/subbysoapy — 5 months ago