AITJ: Former roommate asked me if I was interested in getting a new place with her; I don't want to? Also I blocked her.
I'm wondering if I was out of line by blocking her
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I lived with this person for two years. I was essentially forced to move in October 2025 because she moved due to not liking the third roommate. She was the primary leaseholder, and when a leaseholder leaves in that building, everyone has to also.
The situation caused me so much stress, because I was afraid I wouldn't find a place. I was getting headaches, etc, and spent time touring places that I would have otherwise spent on other things. I also paid for a renter's insurance policy, new license, etc. Feels like it doesn't make sense to move again so soon.
My current lease is month to month, and the landlord would prefer a year's commitment from the tenants. I moved in October, and feel like it would be weird to move back in with the person who forced me to move out.
The former roommate did ask me if I was interested in living with her again, and I said I was open to relocating again, but this seems so fast. I didn't think she meant now. I thought maybe she meant in a year.
And I'm wondering why she's leaving this new place of hers so soon. Also: She told me she's touring the building that I was forced to move out of! This seems crazy. I wonder if the people she was living with asked her to move out? Also she suggested I move in with her into a 1 bed 1 bath, and I take the living room and she takes the bedroom.
I decided to block her on Facebook and her phone number. Probably for the best. By the way, this is another story, but she was also taken to small claims court by the third roommate last sprint. She had collected a "security deposit" from me and the the third roommate, when there wasn't one required. She claimed she was reimbursing the person(s) who moved out, but turns out she pocketed the money. She only returned the money after the judge ordered her to. Not when she was caught pocketing it. Couldn't she have given it back and said sorry it was a misunderstanding or something?