u/Dramatic_Worth1139

Anyone making this work? I have 9mo girl + 3yo boy. Husband is almost 40 and feels like we are at a fork here if we are going to try for a 3rd. We are in early planning on an addition but it’s likely 2-3 years out. Plan was to move 9mo in with brother around 18-24 mos but would it be insane to have a 3rd? Idk we already feel quite tight on space as it is, but I keep thinking this is temporary and I’d regret not going for the 3rd.

I have a great wfh job, great family support. Constraint is primarily space for the next few years.