i miss my old fried…kinda
not a deep confession but oh well
bit of backstory, i’m a metalhead and me and my partner go to this metal/alt club a lot. we met this guy who we became quite close with and when he moved to another city we were playing games with him practically every night and talking to him and it was a really fun time. he was in his overdrafts and me and my partner paid for him to come out in our city one night so we paid for his trains and we gave him £25 for the night and i paid for an uber for him to go sleep at his mums house who lived in our city. we were kinda hoping he would pay us back a little or offer to pay for us to come see him one day. weren’t expecting it but kinda hoping. fast forward a few months and he was kinda hinting at wanting to come out again with us but also saying that he didn’t have money. we said why don’t u ask ur mum for some money (he had been to a concert a few weeks before and gone out with his mum who had paid for him for pretty much everything) and he was like god no she wouldn’t do that. one thing led to another and we fell out because he was arguing with my partner and he messaged me to “sort her out she’s being unfair”. he was at our club the same weekend so he had gotten someone else to pay for him lmao.
i don’t miss him per say because we found out afterwards that he was quite an awful person (drugs, cheating etc) but i miss having a best mate who was like me. long hair, into metal, played games, got all my online references that kinda stuff. not really looking for advice or anything just kinda wanted to get it off my chest lol