My girlfriend has hotgirl summers where she blocks me and goes several weeks without talking to me
My girlfriend has always cherished her and her friends hotgirl summers (they use that term and my girlfriend is the only one out of the friend group in a relationship) meaning enjoying their lives, partying, stay up late, getting dressed and of course if the opportunity presents itself, hooking up with men. Basically doing whatever they feel like.
She made it clear when we started our relationship that she loves Hotgirl Summer and that it was a non negotiable for her, she was going to get one each summer, with or without me. At first I just accepted it thinking how bad can it be she just partying and who am I to object/get upset about it, after all I'm a grown ass man. This is now her 4th Hotgirl Summer since we got together.
What shocked me was how serious she was about it, she literally blocked me on all social media and told me that I was not allowed to bother her, she would be the one to text if she wanted to speak. She could and does go weeks without a single text and she comes home maybe twice or three times during this period. She's been all around Europe with her girlfriends during this period. Sometimes several destinations in a week (I follow her girlfriend from a fake account). I have seen her dancing with other men on stories and kissing other men so I am pretty sure she sleeps with other men, I love her so much that I have no problem with this I just want her to be safe, although I have to admit it is weird being told that I should not ask her about her summer if I don't want to get upset.