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I find it incredibly ironic when companies enforce “return to office” mandates while constantly posting about mental health awareness like they actually care.

For a lot of office jobs, people commute 1–2 hours a day just to sit in a building and communicate through Slack, Zoom, Teams, and email anyway. So what exactly was gained besides traffic, stress, exhaustion, less personal time, and worse work-life balance?

The commute alone has a massive impact on mental health. Sitting in traffic, losing sleep, getting home drained, all so leadership can feel better seeing bodies in chairs. Meanwhile, the same companies post inspirational messages about burnout, wellness, and self-care on LinkedIn like they’re champions of employee wellbeing. The hypocrisy is exhausting.

At this point, I’d almost respect corporations more if they were just honest about it. Stop pretending it’s about culture, collaboration, or mental health. If it’s about control, commercial real estate, middle management validation, or optics, just say that.

The fake concern and PR performance is what makes it all feel so insulting.

Maybe this stuff started with good intentions at some point, but now it just feels like a giant HR ritual nobody actually believes in. Every year it’s the same cycle: write vague goals, pretend they matter, revisit them six months later, rate yourself on arbitrary metrics, then move on like any of it changed something.

In some companies it’s become so generic and disconnected from real work that it’s basically a formality. Everyone knows the game. Managers don’t care, employees don’t care, but everyone has to spend hours acting like this process is meaningful because “it’s part of the culture.”

The older I get, the more done I am with the corporate playbook in general. So much energy goes into optics, processes, and performance theater instead of actually doing good work or treating people like adults.

Maybe I’m just burned out, but I can’t be the only one who feels this way.

Has anyone else noticed a shift in KOMO News lately? I’ve been watching some of their reports on YouTube, and a lot of them seem heavily focused on criticizing Seattle and Washington state officials. Criticism itself isn’t the issue, holding government accountable is part of journalism (I love that!). What stands out to me is the tone: the framing of stories, the use of leading questions, and headlines that feel more sensational or provocative than informative. I’m not defending local government here, but I do expect a news outlet to prioritize balanced reporting over what feels like a narrative push. Maybe I’m reading too much into it, but I’m curious if others have noticed a similar pattern or have thoughts on it.

Just venting a little bit. I never thought I’d say this, but the Port of Seattle actually did one thing right for once. There was a guy in one of the departments (initials DD) who made life miserable for everyone. He’d harass people everywhere, kitchen, stairwells, offices, you name it. If you said hello, he’d snap back like you’d insulted him. Hold the door open? That’d set him off too. It honestly didn’t matter what you did, he’d find a reason to get angry or intimidate people.

Multiple complaints were made over time, but his manager and director did absolutely nothing. No accountability, no intervention, just silence while people kept dealing with it daily. It’s hard to understand how HR allowed that kind of behavior to continue for so long. After years of this, he finally got fired. So yes, that part is a win.

But here’s the frustrating part: the manager who enabled all of this is still in his position and hasn’t faced any consequences. That’s what really sums up the culture there. Problems only get addressed when they become impossible to ignore, and even then, accountability is selective.

The Port of Seattle can be a strange place to work, where “accountability” doesn’t always mean what you think it should.