u/DronkenKabouter

Do you also find it really hard to defend yourself, but have no problem raising your voice when someone else is being mistreated?

I don't know if I don't care enough about myself, or if I'm kind of feeling like I'm "above it" when someone is behaving shitty towards me, but usually I don't and/or can't really defend myself. I just can't or won't think of anything to say or do.

And the dumb thing is, later I do feel angry because people were shitty towards me, and I think I should've said something.

The weird thing is, I've got no inhibitions to speak up or find the right words or "guide" someone away, when someone I deem more defenseless is being mistreated.

Can anyone relate?

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u/DronkenKabouter — 9 days ago