Losing friends
I feel since I’m active now I’ve lost my only close friend I had. Sooo of course as everyone knows once you’re post op you noticed that weight actually hold you back well for me. I’ve noticed I have more energy and noticed I’m active and focus on my weight and finding new healthy hobbies which it makes me feel less depressed since I’m not just in bed rotting away. Recently I’ve noticed I stopped using my phone as much and I’m just exploring this new life style feeling healthy and not getting tired! I just feel I’m in a healthy era physically and mentally and avoid any gossip or just negativity and I’m just focus on me. So my only friend knows all this she knows everything I consider myself an open book and i received a message saying I’ve changed and I’m not as open anymore. But truly I’m just in a healthy relationship with myself there’s nothing to gossip about and I don’t have a toxic environment anymore. I’m just focus on me and feeling thankful for the surgery and being able to be more active. I feel like I was reborn again and don’t get tired and enjoy my hobbies. Am I on the wrong? Or any advice? Obviously she knows how I feel towards everything and how active I want to be to not be sad I have invited her to whatever I plan on doing.