Men, please listen up
Hi, I'm sure some of you will not like what I'm about to say. If that's the case, please head over to the regular bjj sub where you can be among other men.
This is a women's sub.
I am thankful for the men whose opinions are worded thoughtfully. I am also thankful for the men who have taken the time to add their flair designating their username as a guy (if you haven't, please do that). But when I feel like I don't even want to come here anymore BECAUSE of the sheer number of men commenting, adding their takes on things, etc, that's a problem. I know I'm not alone either.
Respectfully, men as a whole struggle with not feeling like they are the center of something. You are not the focus here. You dominate this sport as is. Please let us have our space. Glance through existing comments and if you see multiple other men have commented already, take that as your cue that maybe yet another male opinion isn't necessary. Let the male voice go unspoken. This is literally where women in this sport come to discuss amongst other women. It's the whole point.