Phone sex with long distance partner. I feel so awkward
My husband and I are currently long distance for a little while, and we recently tried the whole phone sex thing. And apparently, I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing.
Which is strange because I’m completely comfortable with dirty talk in person. But over the phone? My brain just stopped working. I couldn’t think of a single thing to say, felt ridiculously awkward, and the more I tried to think of something, the worse it got.
For a little context, we’re both switches, so I’m interested in advice from either side of the dynamic.
I think my biggest issue is figuring out how to actually get things going and keep the conversation flowing naturally. I don’t want to sound like I’m reading from a script, but apparently I need something to work with until I get more comfortable or into it.
What are some good ways to initiate things or ways to keep things interesting without feeling like you’re forcing it?