u/Dry-Glass4598

Why did this guy say he’s visiting my city, then go silent?

After 1.5 months of no contact, a guy I flirt with on and off texted me on Wednesday saying, "I'm coming to your city this weekend."

I kept it casual and replied, "Cool, see you soon." I left the ball in his court to make the actual plan.

It’s now Saturday evening and I haven't heard a single word from him. He hasn't texted to say he arrived, nor has he proposed a time or place.

Why did he even text me in the first place if he wasn't going to follow through?

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u/Dry-Glass4598 — 7 days ago