u/Dry-List9938

I had filed a condonation Request from May 2025 to which, after a lot of time pass mails and issues i got a condonation request approved by the PCIT in April 2026 for AY23-24. To which the Officer is not responding to the return filed since then and after multiple grievances now in the month of August 2026 they came up with new thing that Officer needs the copy of order to which i provided it in Grievance now.

I am from a different state helping this person, the client is 100-150kms away from the income tax office + senior citizen. *How do i get this done and get him refund now, with full proof way* , as these goons wanting bribe(like the senior citizen confirmed in market people getting their older refunds for 8-10k).

Anyone going for Spotify Ipop Icon in Bandra on 21st ?

What changes you made after your failure?

I couldn’t clear in this attempt. Marks are horrible, no exemption nothing. I’ll start it all again, but a question to myself is what would i do different this time? is still unanswered. Even if i start I’ll do the same pattern and same things once again with fewer new topics and questions.

I did revisions, gave mock still it did not work out. I lack writing practice but in paper i haven’t faced it yet. I would start writing practice of few sums/answers this time but what really i need to change is still in my head.

Also, Is there any guidance program or something that might help once i get my papers ?

23M – 5’4”

Rant/Help

i feel very underconfident because of my insecurities, i have been single since birth, i don’t have genuine good friends, and i have never been consistent with the gym. i started going last year but because of my educational and career choices i have ended up becoming a very non‑social person. meanwhile a lot of my peers from college and school have already started earning well for their families.

style is another weak point for me, i mostly wear formals at the office, but outside of work i barely put effort into how i look. i know i fail at styling, and with no social life, average physique, and poor social skills, it feels almost impossible to make new friends. i want to learn new things and go to the gym regularly, but my professional exams keep forcing me to take breaks.

i am not from a big city, i live in a suburb. girls my age either want someone rich or socially presentable, suburb girls prefer guys from the city, and city girls ghost me once they hear my location. the only friends i still have are from school. seeing people join run clubs or social groups makes me realize how far behind i am in every aspect—physique, social skills, and style.

i don’t know why but it feels like everyone else is great at things i lack, i don’t follow sports, and the only music i connect with is indian—hindi, punjabi, gujarati, marathi. it’s not that i don’t understand english music, i just don’t enjoy it. but i feel like that makes it harder to connect socially, since most people (especially girls) are into western or international artists even if it is for social interest i can’t fake it.

how do i fix this