I’m actually in disbelief right now because I had my old account for like 3 years and got a few orders with barely any views. I decided to open a new account and hone in on 1 specific category of my custom items and boom, 3 months in with only 3 listings! I just hope the momentum sticks!
I finally left a little over a month ago and I’m feeling so anxious and overwhelmed. I had no idea somebody I married could be like this. We have 2 young toddlers and I’ve been a SAHM the past year with them but to spite me he’s asking for 50/50 and making it his mission to ruin my life with all of this. He’s gotten his family members to fly in and be babysitters and hold kids from me just to “win” and have his “deserved time” with them. There’s so many details and events that have already happened not even including everything he’s done the past 4 years but I felt so unprepared when I finally left to go stay with a family member. He hit me with all of the craziest things to keep trying to reel me in and then flipped a switch on me when he realized he’d lost control over me. Freaking out about me not sharing my location anymore, freaking out that I’m not using our shared bank account anymore that he moves money into after I’ve asked and told him what it’s for (diapers, groceries, etc.) I’d have to wait until he moved the money so he could track my transaction and then ream me out over a couple bucks if I didn’t spend it to his liking. “Ruining our financial future” because I bought 10 outfits for the kids in the season change instead of 8. Never ending. I can’t do anything right and he’s always right no matter what. It feels like even with me getting an attorney he’s still going to somehow lie and manipulate everybody he knows into taking the kids and not having to support me when he made me quit my job and left me with $0 now. I’m in the worst of this right now and idk how I will EVER get through this part and have to coparent with this person. Sorry this was all over the place, that’s how my brain is operating now. Whew 😅