Anyone else, traumatized by our community or is it just me?
Ladies, I just have hit a wall. I have only experienced avoidant behavior, emotional immaturity, horrible boundaries, low standards, and manipulation at the hands of my fellow gays. I love women, apparently..they don't love me. I have worked on myself, I went from anxiously attached to earned secure. I'm a few years sober, I put alot of energy and time into personal development and I genuinely LOVE myself and my life. I find whether actively dating or just crossing my path, that I just keep interacting with a very unsavory part of the community. I'm not self hating and Again, I love and respect women BUT I really don't have any good dating or romantic dating experience with queer women. Am I alone in this? Are you guys finding, emotionally secure women, who are direct, consistent and know what they want? Im 35 yo, in Southcoast Mass, a brown skin latina Cisgendered