Is this marriage salvageable?
My husband M 36 and me F 23 main issue in this marriage is being betrayed. The feeling of betrayal that I get from him is constantly being communicated to me as “I don’t really care about how you feel” when it comes to his ex wife, siblings, son, certain people in the community that I don’t like, family/people in the past who have offended me in some way. He seems to prioritize being acquaintanced/ comfort with them over how it may offend me
He weaponized my mental health by telling my mother that I was having a psychotic episode when in reality I was in a sound state of mind by Gods mercy.
Him not lowering his gaze in public makes me feel embarrassed and hurt (ie at sulis basketball game) he doesn’t even have the shame to do it when I’m not around
It even runs to a point when he’ll accidently do something and not even apologize for it ie leaving something out and I trip/ fall on it, dropping something on my foot, hitting me with the trunk, leaving my keys in the car with the windows rolled down) he never apologized for those thing and it’s the most painful feeling ever. In facts he argues with me on how I respond after being hurt
I feel like I’m living with someone who doesn’t like me and I rather be by myself. I think he cares about looking married than protecting my feelings and it’s gotten to a point where I don’t really care about going out my way to make things easier for him around the house.
Even though he hasn’t physically cheat or put his hands on me, I question whether or not this is a marriage worth saving.