Sex on the pill
Hey,
I (F26) went on the pill about a year ago. Since then it has been really hard for me to cum. My bf (M27) is very patient and will eat me for 1-2hrs basically every time and i am so thankful for such a caring and suportive bf. I do eventually come but i feel like my body has lost the sensitivity. My mind is very horny but whenever we start touching and having sex, my body just turns off. I've always had very explosive orgasms as well, but recently after hours of trying i do come but the pleasant sensation is lost, like my body doesn't release the feel-good hormones/emotions anymore.
This has lead me to an insecurity and mentally i cannot let the thought go, hence it is even harder to cum now.
We have a very wild sex life, we have used a vibrator a few times if my bf is too tired but i'm not a big fan of toys, they don't feel natural to me.
I would say this is because of the pill. I don't feel anything different after starting it but it could be the only logical reason why this is happening.
Have you had this problem and what did you do? Do i just need to wait longer between the times we have sex or come off the pill and pull and pray? Aaaany advice would do honestly.