AITJ for putting a lock on my bedroom door while living with my parents?
I moved back home about eight months ago while I look for a new place. I'm 24, pay a small amount toward bills, we get along okay generally.
About two months in I started noticing things in my room had been moved. Charger in a different spot, books shifted, that kind of thing. I let it go a few times because I wasn't certain and I didn't want to make it weird.
Then my mom mentioned one evening she had tidied my room while I was out. Just said it casually. I said thanks and left it.
It kept happening. I work from home some days and my setup matters for that. Things kept getting rearranged. Eventually I bought a basic door handle lock and fitted it myself one afternoon.
My mom saw it that evening and asked what it was for. I said I needed my room to stay how I left it, especially for work days. She went quiet and then said I obviously didn't trust her in her own home. My dad said locked doors have no place between family members.
The lock is still there. My room hasn't been touched since. My mom has been noticeably quieter with me and my dad brings it up when we argue about other things now, like it's evidence of something.
I didn't think it would become this much of a thing.