Were both toxic
In this particular case, I was the toxic one. I think... My girlfriend and I have had some issues, we fight occasionally. But when we fight, we are both pretty mean to each other. I'm not going to pretend like I'm perfect. I don't want to be one sided at all, but I do feel like most of the time I'm not in the wrong... Last night she got a little drunk and I decided not to because I was really tired from work. Normally I would enjoy a drink with her and watch movies or play video games. Nothing was wrong until we went to bed, we were having some intimate time up until I couldn't preform anymore and she wanted to keep going. I told her I can't anymore and she responded with "Ew" turned away from me and went to sleep. I personally felt very offended and I couldn't stop thinking about it, I was Cleary upset with her throughout the next day... I was being really quiet and not texting her right away when i was at work. I asked her if she can clean a little while I was working and she responded with "can I be honest? I don't really feel like your house is my home so it's hard for me to". And that just really upset me for some reason because she's been living in my house for months now. So, I said "But you live there? it's literally your home, all of your stuff is there? ". That turned into us fighting for hours and her saying messed up things towards me like "I don't want your lineage" "You're a loser". I called her a Loser as well and I called her an alcoholic to.
I understand now I should've responded better and the better response would've been asking her how I can make it feel more like home? But I was so upset about the night before I couldn't even think straight. Now I'm apologizing and I feel horrible for not replying to her correctly