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How to break up with my fiancé?

Me(F19) and my “fiancé”(M25) have been together for a year. He proposed very early on I told him I didn’t want to be married for another couple years and he said that’s okay and gave me the ring. We now recently have moved in together and he has been horrible. I won’t go into too much detail but he’s been way too controlling. My last straw was he told me he would 😵himself if I was to ever leave him. Now I want to leave him and have for about a month. I’m moving back into my dad’s but am terrified that he will actually 😵himself. He has no family in the state we’re in and not many friends, so he doesn’t have many people he can talk to. I am going away this weekend so I wanted to do it when I’m back on Monday and fully move out when he’s away next weekend. How do I make sure he doesn’t 😵himself or how do I let him down gently? I genuinely care for him, but I’ve had enough.

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u/Due-Conversation-713 — 7 days ago