My husband became extreme in islam now wants a divorce
Please advise me guys,
My husband came home one day explaining the idea of kufr bi taghut because a family member explaned it to him. I started to do my own research on it and I understood the concept but he went further saying all muslims are basically disbelievers and that almost no one is a true muslim. For the record he sees himself as a believer because himself does takfir of the disbelievers. He sees his own parents family , me , my family all as disbelievers because we do not live like a muslim. As far as I know I have my own knowlegde and I know it is dangerous to do takfir on a believer. He does not pray behind any imam he does not pray with the muslims but alone because they are all again disbelievers. When I ask him how could he know all these people ? he said that this time where we live in is a time where all the people are disbelievers until they prove they are not. This I dont understand who is he? Why would anyone prove anything to him? Now he wants a divorce because I do not wear the niqab and I am simply not living like a muslim according to him.. he himself does not watch movies anymore or watched football etc etc but he rather picks his “sins” he smokes overall…. Truly I never experienced something like this it is heartbreaking. He genuinly looks brainwashed . He has some new friends who follow the same “aqeedah” to me this is just not correct according to the sunnah and quran, but he is extremely stubborn. Every family member tried talking to him and he keeps saying he will never change and this is the new “path” he chose. This all started in January? Is this is a fase? What should I do , i tried everything guys. It looks like khawarij sect but again I am helpless. I love him very much and I know he loves me too, but this thing is dangerous when he goes even against his parents. He sees this world now very dark en does not like to do anything with me anymore . Any tips advise? I alreafy tried talking to a sheikh honestly he could not help. He almost believes that he is the chosen one or something together with his “muslim” brothers….