u/Due_Flow6538

I (32M) have been trying this out ever since my girlfriend (30F) realized she was asexual. It's rough, but we're fine. She insists she'd be okay with me sleeping with another woman. The problem is there's literally no takers. I work a desk job and am overweight. I'm going bald. There's also almost no women in the area I'm in to begin with so filter out ones who'd maybe even go for this in the first place and the only reasonable conclusion one can draw is that I'm hideously unattractive.

How do you deal with that feeling weighing you down? I'm mostly looking for guys to answer, but if any women want to, that's fine too.