Mother scolding infront of maid?
Hey everyone. Im a 25 yo girl living with mother - two siblings are abroad. My mother has anger issues but one thing I cant stand is her insulting me infront of the maid.
Like screaming and saying stuff like ‘ye tou aisi hai’ ‘tumhe sharam nai aati’ ‘aisi larki meine kabhi nahi dekhi’ … and the maid enjoys this of course.
All while making her clean my room.
I told her many times not to open my wardrobe infront of her but she does.
And always that please scold me anywhere but not infront of her.
I feel embarrassed after that.
Like after scolding me and screaming at me infront of the maid, she said go clean your room. I was like ‘aap ne meri maid ke samne kya izzat bachakay rakhi hai jo mein uske mun ke samne aun’
And that is true! I feel so super embarrassed infront of the maid.
My Amma is a horrible person. Because I have told her countless times not to do this.
Oh and she always speaks highly of the maid infront of me (I find it hilarious) and that itni achi bachi hai and compares me to her.
Am i over reacting or is this horrible?