I created my profile and while applying for programes, there was no option for masters in economics, only MBA and Mtech came as an option. Did i missed out something or anyone else faced this issue
I have been taking to my gf(21) from last year june-july and we starting dating from dec25 but that was a "we're just friends" phase, last month she asked me do i really want to be with her and build a future with her or am i just casually dating her, i told her i do want to be with her we have known eachother for a year, we can atleast try to make us happen.
Before i proceed further, here's some background. I had an ex sweet girl, jolly as me talks with everyone doesn't get jealous easily, doesn't have a problem with me being friends with girls as long as boundaries are maintained. But we broke due to extreme opposite emotional bonding she was very very very emotionally sounded and mature than me, small cat fights would go into months of not taking and this cycle repeated, i had to break things with her because she was 110% sure her parents won't let us happen even if I became a Prime minister (this is her words), i broke up with her but stayed in contact as we're in same cllg grp
Now my current gf had a traumatic past her bf would cheat blovk the other girl then get back to her, then cheat again with another girl, block this new girl get back to my gf, this cycle repeated with many girls, he even got my current gf pregnant she had to go through an abortion. They broke up 4years ago and no contact. My gf lives alone both her parents died, she works, studies, pays her bill all by herself, very sweet, soft spoken, gorgeous looking 10/10, strong girl
Back to current scenario,3days ago my girlfriend sent me pic of my junior and a long paragraph how i have so many girls in my following and like every girls post, i tried to make her understnd this is before her but i won't be liking any girls post just my close friends to which she replied "mujhe problem horha ha, mai nai hata parhi hoon in ladkion ko, mera itna bhi haqq nai" this word enraged me kisiko hata kr kaise theek hoga mann duniya ha log rhenge hi, i stopped taking to her, so she blocked me then so did I, if that's your final decison then i won't stop, she texted after a day from a different number and told how pathetic I'm that i can accept to end my relationship but not block my ex, suddenly the whole conversation i was only about ex, she told she don't care about amy other girl but my ex,made me block her from every platform, i was trying to make her understand, that i don't have any talk with her and blocking her wouldn't make my girl feel secure in the long run, I'll make her feel secure that would take some time. She didn't understood or i wasnt able to make her understand.
Today afternoon she sent me 4 screenshot of diffrent insta post 3 of them are my cllg friends one is a friend of common friends and she's married, I've liked their post. Now my gf argued how can I like these "adha nanga" photos
>1st photo, married friend in hot pant and sleeves top on a trek with her husband
>2nd photo,.female friend reading a book in sleeveless dress,pic is taken from upper angle so her shoulder and little cleavage is visible
>3rd photo, back pose wearing a saree, with full sleeves blouse and normal back visible
>4th photo, same back pose but bodycon dress
My gf gave me a full lecture how can I like these photos even in my previous relationship and my ex didn't had any issue with that. How my gf had removed every guy from her following and doesn't even likes the photos of any guy (yes yes true, i never told her, it's her choice)
Whereas i can't remove girls from my insta and stop liking their post
My issue is I'll go to different city in 2months for my studies, how am i supposed to keep myself distant from opposite gender in a new city, im extrovert,i love to talk with new people, i just love it. I like to be friends with different people and i did made met great people with way. And she knows this very well, she had told me earlier do whatever you talk with whoever you want, just don't cross boundaries
Her behavior had made me think, that my very nature is getting targeted, i had grown up around girls I had 4 elder sisters, co-ed school and never saw any girl as an opportunity and if I'm not able to make her feel secure now, how will this last in LDR?
My mind says to break things rn as we're not compatible in thoughts and behavior, but my heart says to try it make her understand my point make her feel secure and understand her point too she just don't want to see any girl taking her place, but now liking post of other girls, i mean today this tomorrow that,
TL,DR : I've a strong feeling my relationship won't last due to her having problem with every girl around me or in my insta and soon we'll be going into LDR