I’ve been really fortunate to find another parent to do a nanny share with, and I’m about a week away from going back to work. For the past two weeks, we’ve been helping the babies get acclimated to their new nanny, and overall she’s been doing a great job. We’ve started building a routine with her, she’s very sweet with the children, and she’s communicative and collaborative.
Both babies seem to be gradually adjusting, but my baby is having a harder time. He’s been having crying fits and can be difficult to console or put down for naps. The nanny share is at the other family’s home, so I know adjusting to a new environment may be part of it. Also, the other mom has been home with the nanny while I’ve been stepping out more, since I’ll be returning to work sooner. I did stay with the nanny the first week to ease the transition. On top of that, my baby has started teething, which hasn’t helped.
The nanny has been very attentive such as taking him on walks to help him nap and using things like a vibrating swing to soothe him, but I want to find ways I can support this transition. Bringing his support blaket and toys have helped somewhat. Part of me wonders if this is just normal adjustment, but I also feel anxious and guilty. I worry that all the crying might be harmful, and that he’s missing out on playtime and tummy time during the day because he’s so upset.
Is this something that will just take time? And are there things I can do to help him adjust more smoothly?