u/Eadigi

While Trying to concile My Crush After the NEET Cancelation, I got desparate (She seems to be the kind that Helps Eveyone. But NEVER lets Anyone Help her. This is bad, Couse you can go down a very Gnarly Rabbit Hole, Saying by expirience.) And I said: "please let me help you, You're not a Burden on me, Couse I am choosing you. I have finished most of my Inportant exams, So if anythjng, Just message. I'm Yours. ( i dont know What tf I was thinking NGL. All that mattered to me was to cheer her up....)

Aand Then I remebered She is a Book girl. And No. While I haven't read a lot of Novels My sister Does and She has Mentioned Male Charecters Saying "I'm Yours" to female Make them Go crazy. Was NOT MY INTENTION. And Now I am curious.

Also If posible Do Mention a List of such phrases, That I must avoid before Getting into a relationship. Or rather startements like the above that make girls crazy (I just want her to be happy and Not be a distraction to her goals🥺)

First: muzhe hindi Aati Hai. Main Bas English Bol rha Hu Kyoki Mein English mein Jyada type karne mein Comfortable hu.

Secone: I haven't asked Yet. She doesn't know anything. So Asking her is out of question (That And I want it to be a surprise.)I am gonna Ask her After a few days (2-3 days Before the outing. Before that I wanna b

So I may Ask My Crush Out for an Outing. She has Gluten/Lactose Intolerence, And eating that May Cause eczema (Skin rashes and Flaking. Some Really Painfull looking stuff if it becomes worse). She said its not a Big Deal, Though I am also Planning to take her to a Pastry Shop (Absolute Flippin Sweet tooth. Will eat a bucket of Ice cream EVEN IF she gets Rashes and has to stay bedridden for a day lol.)Which Means More Gluten and Lactose. She can Eat Rotis And Dahi and stuff, Though I want her to avoid that for lunch ,couse then She Won't be able to enjoy The patrie(s) and stuff.

She Is a FAN of Vegetarian stuff, So Wanted to take her To a South indian/Local Restaraunt. And Dont think she has eaten a lot of South indian Stuff So wanted to See If I can give her some Exposure. I know she'll like that since She is the adventureous Kind..

Advice needed. Thank you in advance🙏🙏

Disclaimer: i am EXTREMELY Anxious About crushes And i often assume the worst... I Am Trying my best And To some extent I am able to give her Space.... Lets Call Her Angeline, And I am quite sure She likes me back (Dont know is she sees me As a potential Partner Or a partner she can't have, Couse I Heard thats a Thing, And I dont want her to feel the latter, couse she deserves Affection, Even if its not from me...)

Angeline Has just answered A Huge Exam That she was preparing for 2+ years... I congradulated Her About it, made it all bubbly and stuff so I dont seem like dry texting her.... Told her if she is free just message me, Lets talk over a call... I was trying to plan an Outing since we haven't met for more than a year now, And I think we miss each other's Company... Tho She Hasn't responded... Usually I would Take 2 days Tho, She is taking more, I am worried about her... Maybe I am having Attachment issues, Tho she hasn't even Read the message.... Usually she does... Whats Going on....??

And P.S. Its not like she wants me Out of her life, She messaged me a week prior to her exam And Asked me about mine as well... She clearly seems to care about me....And I care a lot about her too... I think too much.....