Advice for a new bottom who wants to understand his body better
I’m sure this has been asked so many times here so if there’s already a good thread for this, I won’t be offended by getting a link.
I have my first boyfriend who has a hard time bottoming and I’ve mostly topped in my sexual encounters so far. I have enjoyed bottoming and getting to do it more in this relationship but am still not feeling very confident about understanding my body. I want to be a better bottom so we can have more sex so I’ve come here looking for your advice.
Can you give me tips for how you recognize when/if you need to clean out before you bottom? What signs do you look for in your body to know when you’re good to go or need some prep? (My belly feels weird for a day or two after douching so I’d like to reduce the amount I do it but right now I feel nervous when we’re having sex if I don’t and it makes it less pleasurable).
He’s pretty big and it feels great but I enjoy it better when we do some warming up. What do you like to do to get your hole ready so penetration feels good and not painful? Welcome tips for solo warm up and partner warm up.
Any other lessons learned that I should know? I really want to hear personal experience of what you’ve found works that I can use as I understand my body better. Thanks in advance!