u/Early-Lie-5407

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First rl meet

I (m62) uk have been video calling my Thai gf (f47) since March this year. We had an excellent relationship on the phone, constant texting video and some intimacy, we couldn’t wait to contact each other. I couldn’t wait to take it a step further so I’m currently on my last day of a 6 day holiday. The whole experience has been a total culture shock, I’ve felt like a walking bank, I did read up and was expecting as much but coming from the uk it still feels wrong, when we walk through shops I now tend to walk off so I don’t get the constant hints that she wants things. I’ve said I’ll come back in September but I’m not sure if I want this relationship anymore, it seems too one sided. Don’t get me wrong she makes up for it by being very caring, attentive and loving but to me that doesn’t cost any money. Any advice/feedback would be gratefully appreciated.

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u/Early-Lie-5407 — 6 days ago