u/Early_Cranberry_7322

▲ 71 r/infj

How to stop caring?

I'm so tired of constantly feeling all of my emotions and geninuely want to know if there's a way to stop caring so much about things. I'm constantly craving a connection where others reciprocate the same way but feel disappointed when I realize nobody (really) cares about me. Has anyone else managed to change their mindset and be more mellow and nonchalant about life and people?

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u/Early_Cranberry_7322 — 3 days ago

Is Omegaverse taking over the BL genre?

It feels like more and more stories are omegaverse, do you think theres a takeover happening? Do you like it or not? I enjoy reading omegaverse once in a while, but sometimes I'm not in the mood for it. No hate to the genre at all, just curious what readers think of it's constant rising popularity.

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u/Early_Cranberry_7322 — 11 days ago
▲ 19 r/infj

Does anyone else wish they had another version of themself?

I've never had a friendship where I considered another my "best friend". As sad as that may sound, I'm always wishing for someone who will fully see me, hear me, and also just like the same things I want to do. It feels like I always have to compromise my wants with others and I'm always the first to do so due to feeling uncomfortable and wanting others to be happy. You might think, "this is just the human experience because everyone is different", but I always feel so alienated and left out. It could definitely be I haven't met the right people yet, but I'm entering my 30s soon and it's still constantly happening to me even with new people I meet. At this point, I just constantly crave for a clone of myself so that they'd at least consider me first too. And yes, I've constantly felt like a "floater" friend because of how compromising I can be. I feel like this has INFJ traits written all over it. Does anyone else feel like this?

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u/Early_Cranberry_7322 — 11 days ago