(19F)My BF(21M) is being alwfully unsupporive of me.
My boyfriend and I are currently long distance for 2 months and will have to wait another 1 month to meet again. I'm an introverted person, so I usually stick to online games and communities.
I held my own Discord server for a while, when it was destroyed by 2 people who I haven't seen in 2years. (2y ago, they destroyed another 1 of my servers) This time, I wasn't hurt, but when they started messaging my friends, online AND irl, telling them how bad of a person I am with god knows what other lies, leading to my friends abandoning me, I was shattered. 2 of my college friends helped me while my BF (unemployed) sat behind his home screen doing nothing. Won't even ask me if I'm alright or under pressure. This isn't the only time he hasn't stepped up for me. We have irl moments of him js not wanting to be included in my drama, online moments of cyberbullying using AI images or just words, again, he did not say anything. I love him, and I will find it hard to break up with him. I'm confused. I want to try to teach him about the mistakes he has made, but I also don't want to carry that burden on my shoulders. ''He only does it cuz I told him to do it.''
**TL;DR;**: He doesn't want to step up for me when I'm getting bullied irl/online. What should I do?