I [22 F] think I got dumped by my [26 M] partner. Please help
I don’t even know how to start this. But I desperately need advice. A couple weeks ago my boyfriend graduated, I went (we live 5 hours apart) and everything was good. I have met his family before so I this was more about bonding. We hugged and talked about how we would see each other for my graduation which was two weeks away. We do argue, but we tend to talk it out. He labels this as a “cycle” and we have both been trying to get out of it.
Well, today, everything was good (really we had a great two weeks after her grad). We talked about him coming down here, the date nights and the food we could have. And my graduation. Well, at 11:40, he asks to call. I answer and he says that he can’t make it. And that he doesn’t want to pretend things are fine with my family present. And I admittedly cut him off because I knew where this was going and I was getting overly emotional. He was choked up, taking really long pauses and really struggling with any words.
I just. I don’t know what to do here. We agreed to talk again this morning, my graduation is tomorrow. We are far from perfect, but I don’t think anything has hurt worse than that phone call. I screamed and cried for hours.
So Reddit, please help. Is there any saving this?