u/East_Comfortable3901

Spouse has a bigg family.. nervous because In law keeps bugging about us coming. It’s always so then “when, when when will we go?” I’m nervous because being around different state, and many people in a house with so many kids, I’m terrified of baby getting sick.
As much as she gets to vacation why can’t see come over here to see us. he wants to see them of course but I just don’t want to bring baby so young ? It’s just makes me feel a bit sad she won’t come here for some reason

Is it worth it in the end? Do the couple years? Active, your spouse doesn’t have a job.
Or reservist and you work two jobs and your spouse works full time..?