u/East_Disaster4649

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Need advice , first time purposing crush🙏🙏

Hi , I am 20 f I college , and I want to purpose this guy in my college but here are facts

I have never had a full on convo with a guy part of the reason I don't look attractive enough I mean not even a single guy has approached me first

He is also kind of comes in my category , also he is very shy to the point that it feels like he must never been in a relationship, but he has a great personality, and I like him very much

We have only had small talks of like 2-3 min in a month , but there also, I have never seen him talking to girl in the class , everytime we talked I initiated and he just replied respectfully

I am from north , he is from south

Now the semester is almost over , only like 2 days are left exams are completed, and I don't want this time to go waste and want to tell him about my feelings even though he says no in return , I just can't take it anymore

Also I don't want other people to know that I am purposing him , I mean it's my first I am a little embarrassed , during my schools I had toxic friends and they told the whole school about my crush , and it became very hard for me after that , and I don't want to repeat it in college

How should I approach him

Also I don't know why but we used to talk on WhatsApp but he hasn't replied to my messages since 2 days

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u/East_Disaster4649 — 9 hours ago