Pinagsabihan ako ng dad ko about sa boyfriend ko.
I have a boyfriend. Mag-iisang taon na kami next month.
I would say I am very much spoiled, but not to the extent na nagtataray-taray ako. I am well-disciplined, and I know I have good manners.
Anyway, this happened two months ago. I had to go somewhere and both ny parents ay hindi available at that time. Binigyan ako ng baon na 6k ng parents ko. I was with a friend, and my boyfriend para may kasama ako.
Yung nanay ko, persistent siya na bayaran ko na lahat ng expenses na gagastusin ng BF ko especially since nakakahiya naman na nautusan siya na samahan ako sa ibang lugar—so I did.
I paid for our meals, our fare, everything. I had no problem with that at all, kasi ayon naman ang sinabi ng mom ko, and s'yempre nautusan na lang din siya na samahan ako.
NOTE: My BF is mabait, magalang, nice naman. Like us, may financial issues din naman sila pero hindi naman namin gaano napag-uusapan. Binibilhan naman niya ako ng regalo and all kapag may occasion.
Pag-uwi, the next day, kinausap ako ng father ko. Sinabi nanaman daw ba ng mom ko na bayaran yung sa BF ko—I said yes.
Sabi niya, hindi naman daw siya galit, pero dapat daw hinayaan ko na gumastos din daw siya kahit papaano. Na dapat daw nagdala siya ng pocket money knowing na we were going somewhere. (Meron naman siyang dala.)
Naooff daw siya kasi parang ang nagiging scenario is ako yung nagsspoil sa kaniya when in fact it should be the other way around. Mukha ko raw siyang ginagastusan.
I mean, sure. Pero that money isn't from me—galing iyon sa mom ko. I was just following what she was asking me to do.
Pero now, I am conflicted. I am thinking if we should talk about it or if I should just let it be.