u/Eastern-Group5749

Hello mommies! I need your insights. I recently got married via civil wedding, my hubby and I don’t want anything grand. Kumain lng kmi sa labas after the wedding ng dalawang witnesses which are my close friends.

We went to my husband’s home after the ceremony, doon nakatira parents nya and some family members, ayun parang ang sad lng na no one congratulated us (they know na kinasal kmi and si mom nya mismo nagsabi na kami nlng kumain kahit hindi na sila e invite cos she knows we’re introverts)

Parang ang lungkot lng na no one acknowledged na kinasal na kami haha. It’s supposed to be one of the happiest moments sa life namin kaso parang nakaka disappoint lng. Ganon na ba talaga pag wala kang pakain, wala ding congratulations? Haha

And it’s been a week na, when do you start calling your inlaws “mama” “papa”? Who should initiate na ganon e tawag si hubby ba? Until now I call them “tita” “tito”

PS. Sobrang bait ng inlaws ko sakin eversince.
And hindi na kami nag handa pa since we’re saving money para sa binyag ng anak namin which we’ll celebrate in 2 mts.

Hello mga mommies I need your insights. I have a 10 yr relationship with my partner, we have a daughter, 5 mts old.

Me and my partner will be getting married soon.

We will be having a civil wedding, kasi ayaw na namin gumastos. 50/50 kmi sa bayarin, he’ll be paying his suit and I’ll be paying for my dress.

I told him I wanted a photographer and HMUA na din para naman maganda ang photos namin. I’ll be paying for those too, kasi nga ako naman my gusto non sabi nya.

Ngayon, parang hindi na ako sure, hindi ko sya kinikibo kasi na hurt ako sa sinabi nya.

I’m asking lng naman na sana sya na bumili ng shoes and accessories ko, pero sabi nya ayaw daw nya kasi ako naman daw may gusto non. So napa sabi ako sa kanya na, hindi ka man lng makakapag spare ng konti for me, 50/50 naman kmi sa iba.

Ayun lng, mababaw ba ako? Yung ibang kilala ko na mommies husband nila lahat gumagastos, ni isang kusing wala pinapa labas, pero sakit parang pagkaka-itan pa ako.

Context: may pera at savings naman si partner