u/Eastern-Market1279

I honestly don’t understand what’s happening these days. If you’re talking to someone normally and genuinely just want to be friends, why does everything have to become a game? And if a guy likes a girl, why fake so much? Just say it directly and be real.

At the end of the day, every human being is the same. People ignore those who genuinely care about them, then later complain that they never found real love. Attention and delayed replies don’t mean anything. Taking hours to reply just to create “value” or make someone wait is pointless. Just reply and move on, why turn basic communication into a strategy?

I don’t know if this happens only in India or everywhere, but sometimes it feels like people expect life to be a movie. It’s not. Real life hits hard, and everyone has struggles. We can’t stop living just because things aren’t perfect.

In the search for perfection, many people end up with nothing. No one is perfect anyway, we’re all just human beings made of the same things. So why so much ego?

Maybe the world just isn’t made for people who think simply and genuinely anymore. And yes, I know I’m saying this very directly, especially about girls, but this is honestly how I feel.

People often overthink relationships. They change themselves for someone else, and when things end, especially on bad terms, they regret it. They feel like they have lost their self-respect and start believing, “I can’t love again.”

But the truth is, you just didn’t meet the right person. Love doesn’t get finished; it doesn’t just disappear. Have you ever seen your mother or father stop loving you, no matter what you do or what situation you are in? Real love doesn’t end like that.

Don’t force love. Let it come naturally with the right person. And if it’s not happening right now, give yourself time. Someone genuine is waiting for you.

In today’s world, relationships are easy to start, but longevity is rare. There should be no ego, but there must always be respect. Intentions matter a lot. A relationship should feel like companionship, not a burden.

There is also the idea of Brahman, the ultimate existence, everything and nothing at the same time. The world and the universe will come and go, but Brahman remains. We are just a small part of this vast process.

Imagine a single grain of sand beside a beach; we are even smaller than that when compared to the universe. So when you think about it, what can we really control? Almost nothing.