r/Scorpio

i just wanted to know what other scorpios think/feel about geminis.

i personally have never met one that i could stand… i have strong placements in pisces though (1st house uranus, moon & jupiter) so that also might be why.

they’re good at the start but as time going on in the friend they end up being so fake & horrible friends so i was wondering if anyone has had ANY good experiences or bad like me?

Hello, dear Scorpios,

Wanted to share a few thoughts and hear your opinion on a matter, which is the following: some cancer fellows, especially men from my experience, close aquaitance's experiences and from what I have read here and on other social platforms or forums.

Some uneovolved cancer men can be extremely manipulative, let's start with that. The level of drama, gaslighting when they just EXIST and wait for the world to be grateful that they are alive, is insane! They act like once you chose them and they are your partner, they can do whatever the f*ck they want and if you don't love them changed, unaware of relationship, house, children responsabilities, sometimes even verbally abusive (yelling and calling names), and even complete disregard of their own person, lack of hygiene, then you are the bad guy.

Some cancer men expect, even demand for you to love them at their abosolute worst which can go on for years. And if you dare to get tired, dare to want more from life, dare to not want to live like that, they will tell anyone who will listen that you are a bad person/girlfriend/wife/mother, that he was like that because of you, because you didn't frea*king sang a song to him to ask him nicely to take out the garbage while you were running all day long to take care of the house/kids/food/yourself.

The lack of accountability is beyond reason with some of these guys. They will say whatever it takes, lie how much is needed so they can continue to be the "good guys", "the good boys" who only wanted to make things work.

Has anyone had a similar experience with cancer men? I have separated last week from my cancer husband who is, as I have described above, and I could use some other experiences, stories and advice.

So my coworker and I have been friendly for 3 years since we started working together. We were in different departments up until April of this year and I was in a relationship this whole time until the beginning of September. I am born and raised in my small town and he moved here around 4 years ago and works constantly so hasn’t made a lot of friends (we are blue collar industry workers so work a LOT of hours). We started talking a lot more over text since we started working in the same department and have become close. I always sensed a flirty vibe from him. Some of the things he has texted me has definitely been flirting.. anyways the past couple weeks since I have been single I started to develop a crush on him and flirted back a bit. A couple days ago I told him straight up since I don’t like games and communication is important to me that I started to develop a crush and he said that he wasn’t looking for anything in that way. And he said that he was thinking that it was nice to finally have a friend in this town that he trusts and can talk to when he does actually talk. I said that was fine and I’m okay being his friend. I guess I’m just wondering if this is normal for a Scorpio to just switch like that or if it’s just a man thing? Or is he hiding his feelings because he doesn’t want to ruin the friendship? Any thoughts or advice?

I hate I can see the potential in someone and how they need to heal but i can see ultimately the blockage that they refuse to let go of and how it ultimately pulls us apart. I admit dating a fellow Scorpio has been bliss but we are running into some hiccups and it's hurting my heart and I'm struggling right now.

Im not new new to all this. But I've never looked up or know how to check my birth chart.

Im 19 Nov 1997 born at roughly 23:30(I don't know down to minutes or seconds). Is there anyone who could help me find out more about this?

We understand each other so well and have such good witty banter and also deep conversations and he is showingly very nice and gentleman-y towards me. But there is something about him i cant really put my finger on. I dont want to say "some darkness" because thats stereotypical scorpio bs, but my intuition is telling me there is something more going on. We spend all the time together either talking or writing or going out and Im honestly also afraid that very soon one of us is going to pull back after the obsession phase is over. Not sure what to make of this romantic match, do you have any insights for us?