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1. He’s just so intense. Even in public, he’ll shower me with compliments like how just making eye contact with me turns him on, how im captivating even when im doing absolutely nothing, how he can imagine my body no matter what I’m wearing, etc. He’s been doing this every single day for months…

2. We’ve both been going through a difficult period recently. He suddenly got extremely busy, so the amount of time we could spend together dropped dramatically. I got anxious and ended up getting upset or angry over little things quite a lot. But then before I know it, all my feelings have melted away and I’m clinging to him again. I’m seriously hopeless 😭 I’ll be thinking “this is definitely the end it’s over 😭” and getting even more anxious, and somehow he’s already calming me down and making me feel okay again. He absolutely refuses to let me go… haha

3. He’s really, REALLY persistent. It’s not just that he accommodates my preferences. He wants to know why I have these sexual preferences, when they started and what’s behind all my deeper instincts. He tries to understand my psychological mechanisms in really fine detail. He’s asked me about my past experiences many times too, but it never feels like the usual mindless jealousy of “What did you do with that guy? How many times?” Instead, he digs into how I felt, how I reacted, what was going through my mind.. it feels like he’s studying me.
   Even afterward, he’ll ask really detailed things about what I liked, whether anything felt different from before, how this or that felt and I can genuinely feel how much he takes every little reaction and answer seriously and enjoys learning about me.
   It feels like he’s dissecting me all the way down to my deepest parts and honestly I love it. I want someone to completely analyze me anyway haha

I just suddenly felt like pouring all my feelings into words lol

I’m a Sag and the signs I love the most are Scorpio, followed by Cap. I just realized that they’re both right next to Sag!!

What about you? 😆

I feel like my personality is so intense and I put myself out there so much that I actually tried to cultivate a mysterious persona at one point lol. I wanted to come across as super quiet, calm, peaceful, and mysterious 🤣

I tried to commit to it several times but I just couldn’t. It genuinely didn’t suit my personality. Being blunt and open about my feelings and getting easily excited when something fun happens is just who I am. In the end, I think that’s what feels the most natural to me. lol

Has anyone had a similar experience or maybe the opposite? I’d love to hear your thoughts! haha

I’m Korean and I’m fluent in Japanese. Japanese is the foreign language im most confident in and German was the next language I became really interested in.

But ive quit studying german twice already 😂 Both times i stayed at the beginner level. Im not really the most consistent person when it comes to studying 😂😂

I think japanese clicked with me much more quickly bc korean and japanese are quite similar in terms of word order, the overall feel of the languages and a lot of the nuances. I also enjoy japanese anime and games, which made studying japanese even more fun.

bc of that, i kept comparing my german progress to my japanese and since german wasn’t coming to me as naturally as japanese did, i think i got discouraged and bored much more quickly. Which is understandable, honestly I’m just very impatient lol

Still, I definitely have a genuine love for the german language. If i start studying it again, i want to do it properly this time and actually improve. I’d also love to travel to Germany by myself someday!

What do you think? Any advice?
Advice from both fluent german speakers and native germans is very welcome. Vielen dank! 😊

I suddenly got curious about this lol. My big3 are Sag sun, Pisces moon, and Gemini rising.

When something bad happens with ppl around me or I get stressed out at work and feel mentally exhausted, I immediately start talking and whining to my family and partner. I need to stay close to them to feel better! lol

But some ppl need to be alone first so they can rest or process their emotions on their own. (Not bc they don’t love the other person, ofc)

I’m just curious about what placements or astrological factors might explain this difference!

I’m a Sag. Well I know stereotypes aren’t always true,
but somehow most of the ppl and fictional characters who made me think “wow this person is really deep, I feel like we’d have amazing convos” have been Scorpios.

You can call me edgy or arrogant lol, but growing up I heard things like “you’re too sensitive,” “most ppl don’t think that deeply,” and “you think way deeper than ppl your age” a lot. So tbh I kinda grew up feeling like it was hard to find ppl who enjoyed going that deep in convos.
Hell, my idea of the perfect love story is literally Wuthering Heights!! lmaooo.

But everything changed after I met my Scorpio partner.
It’s hard to explain, but I try to understand his feelings and intentions too, yet somehow he’s always one step ahead of me. It almost feels like he embraces my emotions before I even fully process them myself lol

It also feels like I’m wandering through the deep ocean, except it never feels closed off. It just keeps showing me new scenery. It’s not like I never find answers, there’s just always another layer.

And whenever we talk, he almost interrogates me sometimes lol. He’ll keep asking what I think and try to dig all the way into what’s really on my mind. (especially when we’re talking dirty lmaooo) Honestly I love it. I actually like it when someone analyzes me and tries to figure me out haha

Anyway, I just love how you never seem satisfied with surface-level answers. You always want to know what’s underneath, and I honestly find that really beautiful. 😇

I care way too much about who’s right and who’s wrong in relationships 😭 (At the same time, I overanalyze myself a lot and I’m also really sensitive to how other people see me. Holy shit.)

For example if someone hurts me, I don’t usually just feel sad. My first reaction is more like “How could they do that to me? After everything I did? They were the one in the wrong“ I get consumed by anger pretty easily. I’ve never really been a gloomy person. If anything, I have way more anger than sadness.

Because of that I used to argue with my mom a lot about this, especially when I was a teenager. She’s a Pisces sun with a Libra moon and rising. When I’d vent about someone, what I secretly wanted was for her to be like "Yeahhh they’re in the wrong. How could they do that?! That’s messed up,” and basically be on my side and roast them with me lol.

But my mom was always more like "Just let it go. Try to understand them. You’ll feel more at peace if you don’t dwell on it so much.” She always tried to calm me down and bring peace to the situation. I know that’s actually a really healthy approach, and I don’t think it’s a bad thing at all. I was just a lot more immature back then, so I desperately wanted someone to take my side instead. It wasn’t really about wanting my feelings validated. It was more that I wanted someone to judge the situation the same way I did.

That’s also why I catch myself thinking "Why would they say that?” or “Why are they like that?” pretty often. Even my Scorpio partner usually tells me" You’re not necessarily wrong but you can’t force everyone to see things the same way. People are different.” 😭

It’s not like I hold grudges against people or enjoy conflict. I don’t even have the energy for power games haha. It’s just that when something happens, I have a really hard time holding back that initial burst of anger.

I know I’m still immature in a lot of ways. I just wanted to be honest about what I’m like. 😇

Im a Sag sun, Pisces moon and Gemini rising.
Well ppl always say sag and gemini are opposites, but honestly i feel like my Pisces Moon clashes with my Sun and Rising way more.

Whenever something feels unfair my first instinct is to confront it head on but at the same time i get anxious and care way too much about what other people think.
And whenever something bad happens or i start feeling anxious i do eventually shake it off and move forward but before i get there i spend way too much time imagining the worst and acting like the tragic main character in my own head 🫠🙃

But at the same time im really cheerful, playful, kinda goofy, and straightforward. The ppl who like me really like me, but the ppl who dont like me REALLY dont. Theres basically no in between lol

The thing is i genuinely want to live excitedly, always looking for fun and not getting so caught up in my emotions. But it feels like the outside and inside of me are completely different. The person i want to be and the emotions i actually have just dont match.

And dont get me wrong i dont think having a Pisces Moon is a bad thing at all!! (A lot of it is probably just my own mental struggles haha)

I dont want to hate my personality either. I just wish the two sides of me could become one somehow. 😇

Any other Gemini risings ever feel this way?

Hi im a Sag and ill just get straight to the point. I absolutely love Scorpios.

Tbh when i first got into astrology i just thought “oh i guess Scorpios are my type!!” bc so many of my fav fictional characters and celebrities happened to be Scorpios lol. One of my all time fav characters is a Scorpio too haha

But then i actually met a Scorpio man and honestly my life has completely changed.

Ive always preferred deep conversations that get to the core of things and i crave that same depth in relationships too. But i never thought id actually find it in real life. Then he came along and completely changed the way i think. Hes honestly someone who goes beyond what i ever imagined.

Even when i lose control of my emotions and completely blow up he never tries to force me to change or rush me. He just stays by my side quietly and helps me get through it. At the same time he doesnt just sit there and take it. He always gives me the advice i actually need to hear.

bc of him ive started wanting to become calmer. Ive always been someone whose emotions and stubbornness came first but now i genuinely want to slow down and pay more attention to the people around me. And i think im actually getting better at it.
And i dont even need to mention the depth and passion we share in our relationship.

Its the first time ive ever experienced something like this so everything feels new and it makes me genuinely happy.
I also really enjoy learning more about you guys through this sub!

So i make sure to tell him every day how grateful i am and how much i love him. None of us know what the future holds but as long as God allows it ill keep doing my best every single day. I want to love without regrets.

I just wanted you guys to know that there are people from other signs who genuinely love Scorpios too.
Thanks for reading ❤️

Well I love both L and Near. When i first watched the anime L was easily my fav and Near was second. But after reading the manga i actually changed my mind.

Their styles are just different. Near seems to start with intuition and insight first then builds up the evidence and refines his conclusions as things unfold. I think thats why i like his approach more. Im the type to jump to a conclusion first too so it just clicks with me.

Also Near is even less sentimental than L, so i love the idea that even if Light tried to charm his way out of it or pull all his usual tricks, Near would just be like what the hell is this shit and not buy a single word of it haha 😹

That said i totally get why so many people prefer everything before L died. L is such an iconic character that its hard to top him.
Personally though i really enjoyed Nears style. And honestly hes adorable too lol 😇🥹

Thats why it was such a shame that so many of Nears scenes were cut from the anime.

whether its your looks your personality or anything else how do you deal with people who seem jealous of you or keep trying to one up you?

i hate it so much and i just cant seem to let it go 🥲

the funny thing is i actually have pretty high self esteem so youd think id just be like lol theyre just jealous and move on but i canttt
instead i end up feeling really frustrated and angry and it just eats at me

i wish i could ignore it and not let it get to me but its a lot harder than it sounds

fellow sags please share your wisdom🫠

Edit to add: thanks for all the great replies everyone ❤️ ill definitely keep all of this in mind!