Dating a Cancer Man
I am a Sagittarius Sun & Rising as well as Libra moon, I don’t know his signs but I just now he is a Cancer Sun. I’ve been dating him for almost a year now. I’m Asian and he is European. At the moment, we are having some sort of problems, actually just him with me. He is a very emotional man, likes philosophy and a man who knows what he wants. Lately, he’s been saying that inside him he feels unhappy and unfulfilled, and that looking at me does not inspire him. And I didn’t know this (he tells me only when we’re almost breaking up), and I feel like I have to be a certain someone for him to like me or there’s a version of me in his head that I’m not becoming and it frustrates him, and now he thinks it’s a compatibility issue. However on my end, I felt nothing but loved. He is extremely loyal and attentive to my needs and is very sweet. Yes, there are moments when I wished he could be more (for example, we could be more adventurous together or go out more), but these are things I understand and I feel like he is still working on himself, so they don’t bother me as much. Now I feel like I’ve been under his microscope and he constantly feels the need to check my progress with me completely unaware. I just felt like it was unfair, I am an open person, he could have told me these things sooner not only when he feels like giving up. Is there a way we could navigate through this? (Sorry i dont know much about signs but maybe it can help)