I know everyone is different but just in general...

I have a sag friend that really takes a tumble when things don’t work out. It’s with all relationships and I was just curious how other sag’s do in that department

As a fellow sag rising the one lyric that touches deep to each molecule of my soul is “freedom is a lonely road” - under control by calvin harris… everytime i hear that line in the song it cuts deep inside me..

It started out great. Chatted all the time. Online relationship. She throws a tantrum every few days over something I done or didn't do. It has really knocked my confidence. I thought I was in love with her but she is very paranoid and controlling. Too many red flags but my heart ignored them.

12/12, any of you Sagittarius with the inability to save a dime? No issue making it but fucking I cant keep it. If there are and you fixed it, how did you go about it?

It’s literally in the sub name 😩😩😩

Why are y’all still spelling it wrong????

I like the challenge as a saggitarius but if someone repeatedly misbehave or speak ill of me, shouts at me I go silent after initial confrontation.

Is it normal and similar with others or is it just me?

I am early december saggi.

And Since we go silent some people think that we are at fault hence not gossiping or sharing with anyone though other person is busy creating bad image about us . What are your thoughts on this perception of people about us dealing a conflict situation?

I'm a scorpio mom, dad is a gemini. Our son is such fun little guy. What can we expect with a Sagittarius baby?

I've been dating someone long-term and he's cheap 😞

I understand that I can be overly generous and I'm not the best with money but I always have enough -this might be my cosmic luck.

He's an Aquarius and grew up with more resources than I did. I grew up lower-middle class and he grew up middle class.

It just irks me when he counts every last cent. He doesn't freely give gifts and always expects something in return when he does.

He thinks buying branded things is a waste when I think he's actually wasting money buying inferior products that will have to be replaced sooner or tastes like crap.

He's not generous with acts of service either. Every good deed needs to be reciprocated as well. It just seems like such a miserable way to live.

I don’t know if this is a Sagittarius thing or just a me thing but I’m really good at comebacks. According to my brother I’m “the best at comebacks” and can “come up with them on the fly.”

My brother is right, I can come up with a comeback on the fly. I just have to be careful with what I say and when because I don’t say them in an offensive, insulting kind of way; I say them in a comedic, one liner kind of way. But that doesn’t mean I can’t use them as insults or that they can’t come across as such so I do have to be really careful.

Hey, a month ago I met a saggitarius woman born on 18 december and i m a libra born on 18 october. When we first met everything went very fast, later we had sex and we started a relationship. Everything was good until one month later until now when I had to leave with work for 3 weeks and she said she doesn’t have any problems with that as she is pretty independent. When i was working, we would talk almost everyday with small “good morning, have an easy day at work”, in the mid day if she had some issues she would tell me everything and i would help her however I can and in the evening we would continue texting a bit or video call or just audio.
Everything was fine until two days ago when all of the sudden i felt her a bit off and asked her about it and she started telling me that what we started feels a bit too fast for her and she can’t offer what i do to her and that she might not be ok with the fact that i m leaving her with work.. i tried to explain that i can be there for her and find a job at home, but she said that would not be enough. She is pretty stressed out with her work and she just feels like also this relationship is way too much for her but i just want to take things slow with her, not suffocating her at all but in the end she said something like “i don t know maybe i need a break”. Since that the last vocal i got from her was “sorry for not replying i just finished work and i will go home after”. I also replied that i finished my day and i ll go to my accomodation. Since then she didn’t say anything anymore and i m just respecting her space and need for a break and not replying to her anymore, not even small “good morning’s”, i would like to know if i make the right decision not texting her so fast or should i wait a bit longer? Now i m on my way back home and i wanted to see her but i still respect her needs and i also have some things to her place and i don’t know when to initiate the conversation again with her and ask for my things also and maybe to discuss about this situation clearly like two mature people. She will also come in my city on 17 july with work and i don’t know if should i go silent until then (if she’s not texting me at all) or should i start a small conversation with her after 2-4 days? Is there any chance that she’s thinking about us to continue something or she would just go over it. It’s really a shame we are both so good together, i know it was for a short period but everything was smooth without any issues. I also spoke a bit with her sister and she said that sometimes i was to available for her and i pampered her a bit and she’s not used to that as she had only disappointing relationships with very indifferent people, but i m trying not to do that anymore and like i mentioned, respect her break and stay silent.Now i m asking saggitarius woman, what should i do.. should i text her when i land home, just to let her know i m fine atleast? is there any chance to solve this or is most likely over and i m just gonna meet her again to take my stuff and that’s it, maybe then to talk a bit about the situation. She really do appreciate me and doesn’t want to hurt me but that’s not the case, i just wanted her to understand that she’s not a burden for me and i would take things more slowly.. Texting this is a bit hard for me and i can’t fill up every single detail, english is not my main language and i m sorry if there’s any misspelling, i m just on my way to catch my flight and i m really tired :) I just need some guidance and small advices. I m really curious if she would reach me today on my way home.
Thank you in advance!

Hello everyone thanks in advance for all your contribution and time before I tell my story.

I (28m) have been dating my Sag (29f) for about 5 months. We met through dating app and our chemistry was phenomenal. The momentum kept growing as she stated how much of our values and goals aligned. The first 3 months were our honeymoon phase, then we helped each other move out to new places and talked plans for the future of moving in after I’ve met her parent. She knows I’ve had struggled with mental health problems and she was very accepting of it, as she also suffer from anxiety and insecurities throughout her life. From the beginning we always supported each other and had resolved most of our conflicts calmly. The love was genuine from both side and she does care a lot about me. We had plans together to build a future and grow.

After she helped me moved out and I helped her move to her new place, I had started spiraling a little bit because of overwhelming stresses. Then instead of talking or spending time with her I’ve dealt with my stress in the most unhealthy way. I shut down and neglected her while she was supporting me. Even when she’s asking for bare minimum I had not been able to meet her needs, but she also think she’s not meeting my needs. The last two months has been a bit rough with fights and bickering, then she grew tired. I acknowledge my lack of effort during the last 2 month and she also know why I shut down. I’m incredibly grateful she was being supportive and loving while I’m in my worst, but I didn’t took good care of her during those time. Even though she was understanding of my circumstances, it still took a toll on her mental health and drained her. I’ve also made thoughtless comments that had impacted her insecurities, and every time I’d apologize intensely for being so stupid. The comments were never malicious or weaponized, but I had broken her trust and made her felt unsafe for my lack of common sense. I promised to never say anything that would hurt her again during the relationship, however the damage was already done.

She asked me to go professional therapy and I said I’m willing to try again but had refused during the moment, because my reason was: I’ve had tried in the past and they never truly helped. Perhaps, it was just bad experiences. The last two month had really depleted her emotional capacity and mental health. She knows I’m actively working on my flaws and she often applauds and celebrates these improvements. However she came up last week crying so much and said we should break up, saying even though she loves and cares about me deeply she doesn’t see this relationship working out. Mentioning her romantic feelings has fleeted and not sure if she’ll be able to get them back. Returning my belongings and taking hers, but requesting to keep the keys to my apartment. Saying she doesn’t want to lose me in her life and wanting this special connection with me. As she tells me I’m an incredibly kind and loving person, but just ‘right person, wrong time’.

After hours of tears, kisses, and cuddles she left some stuff in my apartment and took a bit back to hers. We spent some extra time before she left that day playing our favourite game. I asked if there’s any chances, but she said she had given many and is currently too depleted to try again. I desperately want to make things right to undo the last 2 months and she knows I’ll be taking therapy/counselling again to grow better. I have acknowledged all my mistakes to her with full honesty, she knows we never lied to each other about anything. Before she left I didn’t press on or pressure her for more. Respecting her need for time and space to heal. I agreed to stay as her friend in the meantime while she’s healing, but I’m not sure if she’ll be able to grow that connection back again.

I know she has abandonment issues and anxiety about me not being there for her, so I always tried to be present no matter what. Even during those rough times in the past months, but all the little arguments and bickering had made her felt really distanced. Ever since that day we still talk with each other over text and had calls, though every intimate approach to be a little extra caring from me had been dismissed. I’m preparing for the worst as she is using this healing time to get over me. It’s the least I can do for her is be alongside until she gets better. I’ve been actively improving myself since that day and she knows the effort, if a second try were to happen again I will protect that with everything I’ve learnt from our past. I understand that’s too much of me to ask her right now and she needs to rebuild that ability to be in a relationship again. The other day we called for 2 hours, I sense she still deeply hurt about us and cried, so every time I sense it I immediately stop and redirect the conversation to light hearted banter to stop the pain from the wound I’ve caused. She promised me she’ll tell me when she’s ready again for relationship, but we needed to work on ourselves. However working on ourselves independently seems like we will drift apart further away from each other until eventually cutting ties. Despite I still send her a daily message to check in, but reassuring her ‘no reply is needed’. She gets very anxious if she doesn’t hear from me during the relation and explicitly said if I’m gone for a few days with no presence she’ll definitely break up. So, I try to at least send some sort of reassurance everyday to make sure I’m still here to ease her anxiety, not sure if that’s helping or hurting her. Damaging this last thread of connection further is the last thing I’d want.

It’s been almost a week now we haven’t seen each other and I sense she’s shifting our relationship to platonic, but she gets soft every time the conversation on call gets intimate or dismisses it. I’ve slowly come to accept that she may never love me romantically again, but I still cling onto this hope that when she’s ready I’ll be a better version of the person that had attracted her when we first met.

Thanks to you all for reading my terrible English sob story, hope y’all have nice day and any tips or advice is greatly appreciated❤️

For example celebs like Taylor swift, Monique, Nicki Minaj, Britney Spears, teyana Taylor, nene leakes and so much more. I notice we do keep to ourselves and those celebs too yet always being talked about negatively even when they or “we” as sag woman have accomplishments. But every other zodiac sign gets grace but us. Idk it’s just an observation.