r/Sagittarians

Me (may Gemini 25) got ghosted by a sag men (dec sag 29) on Sunday. Previous context: we talked via phone for 3 weeks and there was good chemistry to the point that he said he’d like to see me next week when I’m in his town.
After ghosting me for an entire Sunday he reappeared on Monday advising me that somebody made fake profile using my pictures. It was really kind from him to tell me that, but the fact that someone made a fake profile with my pictures made me feel so bad to the point I didn’t want to use instagram anymore. So instead of disappearing I communicated him that I wasn’t going to use ig and gave him my phone number. I got left on seen. I don’t know if I scared him or I’m suppose to do something. I don’t think my text was all that but I’m not in his mind. As someone who believes in personal space makes me feel kinda uncomfortable to chase after being left on seen. What do you guys suggest ?

I feel like we definitely have a strong spiritual connection and intuition because of our ancestors who experienced imperialism, colonialism and/or slavery. Lmk in the comments if you’re here!

Gemini season runs from May 20 through June 20. 4 weeks. The Sun moves fast, but the pressure it activates this year is not standard seasonal energy. With Uranus already in Gemini since last month, the Sun entering now lights up a disruption that has been building in the background. For Gemini, Sagittarius, Virgo, or Pisces in particular, the next 4 weeks will be structurally significant.

Sagittarius

• Gain: The Sun in your 7th house of partnerships activates all your significant relationships, professional and personal. The gain this season is clarity. Partnerships that have been ambiguous will show their actual shape. Contracts, collaborations, and negotiations that stalled will move. If you have been waiting on someone else to make a decision, the next four weeks is the time for the decision!
• Loss: Autonomy. The 7th house requires you to be in relationship with something or someone rather than on your own terms. If you have been operating independently and liked it, Gemini season interrupts that. Your visibility right now runs through other people, not around them. This may feel like a loss of freedom. But it is actually the upgrade — if you stop treating every partnership like a temporary arrangement.

small note: if your sun, moon, or rising is in Gemini, Sagittarius, Virgo, or Pisces, this rebuild may land more personally. and if you have multiple fixed placements, the energy can feel much louder.

What are you looking for in gemini season?

Salut ! J'ai beaucoup flirté avec un Sagittaire. Il était très gentil et respectueux. J'étais assez timide, mais ça ne le dérangeait pas. À un moment donné, il a pris ses distances, et je trouvais ça normal, ça ne me posait aucun problème. Plus tard, j'ai appris qu'il était en couple. J'étais contente pour lui et je trouvais ça super qu'il ait coupé les ponts pour rester fidèle à sa copine. Mais sa copine l'a quitté, et à peine le lendemain, il flirtait de nouveau avec moi. C'était comme s'il n'avait jamais été en couple. J'ai décidé de rester sur mes gardes parce que je ne voulais pas qu'il me prenne pour acquise, mais il a continué pendant une semaine avant d'abandonner. Il a l'air différent, même un peu triste ?. Mais il restait gentil avec moi. Une amie m'a dit que certains garçons ont du mal à se concentrer sur une seule fille par peur d'être rejetés. J'aimerais avoir ton avis parce que je me demande si je passe à côté de quelque chose, vu que j'ai encore des sentiments pour lui…

Sag sun, Leo moon, and Virgo rising
The Leo + Virgo is so debilitating and I feel like my Sag ironically keeps me up right. Neuroticism is a pain in the ass and would love to know how yall cope!

Sorry for the length.. but I start. (EDIT: I‘m sag sun, cancer rising, Pisces moon)

- For me the worst female friendships by FAR were with Leo sun / Capricorn girlies.

- I always got along semi well with Cancers/ Gemini / Aries sun girlies.

- And my best, most genuine friendships were with Scorpio, Libra, Aquarius & Pisces girlies.

Leo: Ironically all three of the best friends I ever had were Leo sun signs. In the beginning we always bonded really well and we were inseparable quite fast. I always found them similar to myself and fun but they have always schemed on me and betrayed me in the end. They all had stolen my entire personality under the premise of matching but they never actually wanted to match. Just basically wanted to one up me or (Ik it sounds conceited asf) wanted to be.
I had all of them' steal' opportunities, and men from me at some point. They had also all lied a lot. Not because it was necessary but just kind of compulsively, to appear cooler than they are.
They would copy me so much they’d even tell my stories or jokes as if they were theirs and they’d do it so much that they’d slip up and even do it when I was present. They also were extremely possessive, to the point they’d be mad if I did something with my other friends. If I invited them they’d decline but they’d ’retaliate' by excluding me from certain things in return. I also hated the boy-craziness. I was met with smear campaigns when I called out cheating or male centered behavior.

Capricorn: In general very respectable, fun and honest. Also usually get along well with them on a surface. But at the end of the day inhale how they keep tabs and score and the way they’re so stingy. Literally had a friend deny me a drink at a party she threw because she only bought 4 of those specific drinks and planned to drink them all. Those kinda things really annoyed me.

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Cancers: I got along well with them. They were always very nice and supportive UNTIL a man was involved. Got stood up for men, left alone at parties for men and it was always pretty insignificant men too. Not longterm boyfriends or fiances or husbands.. Just talking stages.

Gemini : Very kind. I have always got along well with them especially because we have a similar sense of humor. Some of my Gemini friends were literal comedians. WHAT I HATED about them though is the fact they’re often easily influenced by other people, a bit too clingy and most importantly they wouldn’t really follow their words at all. One day they’d say they hated a particular person and asked begged me for validation in their decision to cut them off and the next day they’d hang out with exactly that person.

Aries: Also very fun with similar humor. I loved that they were very spontaneous and affectionate BUT their constant need for validation really ticked me off. They’re often seen as confident but in my experience they were everything but that. It was mostly an act. I hated that they were taken advantage of so easily by men, but wouldn’t take my advice to change that even though they’d constantly ask for advice they knew they wouldn’t follow. Also sometimes a bit too bossy and comfortable with their expressions. Made me feel like a sidekick to their greatness that wasn’t allowed to outshine them.

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Aquarius: Very honest. Often the same opinions, morals and niche interest as myself. I love their awkwardness and I love how they don’t apologize for it. I also never felt like they were in competition with me. Just chill. Sometimes slightly performative but to nobody’s detriment.

Pisces: delusional when it comes to relationships but very receptive for constructive feedback and honest about their delusions. Very fun to speak to and honest. Sometimes their heartaches and drama prone behavior is annoying but they can turning off when need be. Also lovee their open ness to my hobbies or opinions. They don’t need to argue and be right all the time.

Scorpio: My match. Always got along well with them. Men were never even a topic let alone an issue. Always very supportive of my dreams and helpful. Never felt like they were keeping score on anything. Sometimes a bit harsh with their words but always from a genuine, loving standpoint. A bit hard headed when it comes to opposing their opinions but very demure at last.

Libra: Love these girlies. Very outgoing and understanding. Yes, they’re image is mostly carefully curated and planned out but I never felt in any type of competition with them. They’re too busy being harsh on themselves bcs perfectionists but it never made them a bad friend. They do take stuff slightly personal but I’ve got not experienced them wanting to actually grow and become better. Yes they do like to gossip but I know they have rankings and a good heart and are able to differentiate between things they can and can’t talk about. Very respectful and caring.

If you made it it this far, thank you for your time :)!
If you have any ranking of your own, similar or different experiences than me, feel free to share.