r/geminis

Do Gemini men ever come back ?

For context I’m pretty well-groomed, I speak well, and I’m an extrovert around most people, so I guess people assume I’ve been in relationships. 😭

But I’m a Gemini, so you know how it is social, curious, and confident on the outside, but the moment things start getting emotionally serious, my two personalities start having a debate.

So yeah, somehow I’m 21 and still haven’t been in a relationship.

So… am I actually unlucky, or am I just taking the long route

Being in love means you become your first thought when anything happens good or bad. It's when you can be completely yourself without performing or pretending anything. It's feeling home in a person instead of just a physical place.

For a ♊ Gemini, love simply means finding a true best friend. They define romance through lively conversations, witty banter, and a shared curiosity about the world around them.   

My mom keeps pressuring me to text my sister because her husband is having surgery, even though we rarely talk. On Saturday, she called pretending to check on me, but it was just a cover to push my sister's demands and gossip behind my back.she said text your sister and ask about the surgery. It seemed my sister bitched about me which led to her call. I am.not in direct contact with her husband and.hardly speak to my sister

Aitah? Im.the gemini

I went on a date with a guy last night. He’s a Gemini. We were chilling and having fun with some drinks. I enjoyed my time last night. One think lead to another and yk.. Now I’m not super physically attracted to him but I appreciated how direct he was in his questions. Usually that’s what I’m doing. Like questions you would usually be uncomfortable answering and perceive as invasive for a first date. I think that made up for it with me. Idk I’m just here ranting bc I’m just happy it wasn’t with another Taurus bc omg are they very prominent in my life. Anyways I think I actually want to see him again. Thoughts?

I went on a date with a guy last night. He’s a Gemini. I’m a Virgo . We were chilling and having fun with some drinks. I enjoyed my time last night. One think lead to another and yk.. Now I’m not super physically attracted to him but I appreciated how direct he was in his questions. Usually that’s what I’m doing. Like questions you would usually be uncomfortable answering and perceive as invasive for a first date. I think that made up for it with me. Idk I’m just here ranting bc I’m just happy it wasn’t with another Taurus bc omg are they very prominent in my life. Anyways I think I actually want to see him again. Thoughts?

I’ve noticed Gemini and Scorpio seem to be a thing, especially Gemini men and Scorpio women. 😭

And somehow, they seem to be working out pretty well. But in almost every case I’ve seen, the Gemini looks like he’s been slightly taken hostage. 😂 They’re with their girlfriends most of the time and don’t seem to be balancing their friendships much in between.

I’m wondering if that’s just a college thing and they’ll naturally have a healthier balance after graduating, or if this is just how some Gemini–Scorpio relationships end up working.

What do you guys think? 👀♊♏

I'm a double Scorpio/Cap Moon single, never-married, mature female profoundly in love with a much younger Gemini Sun/Cancer Moon man. He is married, has a small child, and lives about 300 miles away, so I see him only on special, specific occasions. He does seem to value our platonic connection, but it is a shallow acquaintance at this point due to the circumstances from which it arose. I've known him for three or four years (aging memory, losing track of time a bit).

I am absolutely not looking to push this connection into the physical realm, which could destroy it, and I respect and treasure him far too much for that, but to deepen what it is, because he is priceless, exceptional, unlike any man—except one other Gemini Sun, a long time ago—that I've known in all my many decades of life. He is the sort of Gemini you can't help loving, if you admire that Sun sign's classic traits. And the depth and complexity of that combination with a Cancer Moon, I'm learning, are staggering.

For my sanity's sake, and to tame the physical cravings, I'd also like to do better at keeping it platonic inside my head.

Thoughts, anyone?

Please don't waste energy on dismissive "forget him, you silly woman" replies, which will be ignored, no matter how insulting. I will acknowledge a lifelong bad habit of attractions and attachments to married men, including my first Gemini Sun, which is why I've remained single. At this point, it is what it is. And this one is the crown jewel… just too precious to let go. I've simply vowed not to wreck it this time.

So, as it says, an August Virgo (m) has my June Gemini (f) attention. He has yet to bore me, so I’m even more intrigued. Am I going to get bored eventually anyway? Is there any hope?

It’s a very long story and if there’s enough interest, I might do a full story time later but daaaannggggg it’s realllyyy tough for me to forgive this one Sag for what she did years ago. Like it’s literally been several years and even though I go through long times of not thinking about her or just feeling neutral about the whole thing bc I don’t see her anymore, there are times like this when I get pissed all over again. I read about Sags recently bc I am on and off about believing astrology and basically what I learned is that they’re so stubborn they will NEVER apologize. In our particular situation, it said she will likely never say sorry to me bc that would be the ultimate loss and humiliation for her, the full admission of her guilt and she can’t handle it. Sags can’t handle that. And my mom is a Sag and that lady will never apologize so I can definitely believe it.

Is it just me or is it hard to forgive them? Is it just my love language that needs an apology in order to forgive?

I want to go back to being apathetic toward the thought of her, just currently in a phase of being angry.