r/geminis

My best friends are both Capricorns (one jan, one dec) idk how much I relate to them and stuff tho.

Okay real talk. Anyone here experience social anxiety or have an unhealthy attachment to substances? (i.e caffeine, alcohol, nicotine, weed ect).

If you overcame social anxiety and substance abuse, how did you do it?

I have an unhealthy attachment to caffeine and I think it makes my anxiety worse. I’ve also said I want to quit both caffeine and alcohol but have yet to do it..

How much time it takes for Gemini woman to forget harsh criticism?

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I (pisces 27M) met a gemini 27F through an online game about a year ago. We clicked instantly and talked every day. After about a year, I developed feelings for her, but she told me she couldn't reciprocate. I accepted it and wanted to stay friends.

Recently, she's become much more distant. Her replies are dry, and she doesn't seem as interested in talking anymore. I've also invited her to voice chat and even suggested meeting up (we're only about a 3-hour flight apart), but she's always politely declined.

I genuinely care about her as a friend and just want her to know I'm here if she ever needs someone to talk to. At the same time, I don't want to make her feel pressured or uncomfortable (we argued before and that actually give me the chance to know her better)

Should I tell her I'm here for her and leave it at that, or is giving her space the better approach?

I have seen a lot of post about how Geminis are unreliable and shallow in a relationship and says about not dating but stays as friends.

Makes me question if i am a reliable person. I always wanted to be reliable but i feel so clumsy and felt like I disappointed everyone.

Is this my worth as a Gemini? 😭

When I try to reach out to someone about a rough day… it gets ignored. People respond with things like “lol I’m drunk” or “that sucks I’m on a boat” literally just ignoring my big feelings. And it happens with multiple different people!! Is it just me?? Or is this a thing you guys experience as well?

but every Gemini girl I meet as a gemini girl has this like weird stand offish energy that really throws me off. Like has me thinking “do you not like me?” Kind of vibe but you can’t say it out loud 🤣 it made me think like Is this how I appear to others? There are archetypes of gemini girls and honestly I’m the more bubbly nice to everyone type but also quiet if the vibes not there and I just wanna know if anybody else has experienced this from our sign or if it’s just me? I always lead w kindness and it lowkey hurt experiencing this from our sign like it dead ass gave regina george energy best way to describe it….but on the down low.

PSA this is not me shitting on our sign I love Geminis but lately the girls I’ve met haven’t felt like girls girls not sure if it’s in my head or what but damn :/

I thought y'all said that dating another Gemini was a no no. Why are our charts so compatible, yet he's an avoidant/runner? 🥹🤡😂

ETA: I'm a Gemini Gemini Cancer and image in the comments.

ETA: also I just realized that each of his sign represents me and my 2 siblings who are also a Scorpio and Virgo which is kinda crazy. Maybe this is why we get on so well. 😂 jk, but not

I’m a Sagittarius man that’s curious to know what Gemini woman love to talk about ? What are some questions that I should be asking ? What will help me get deep enough to have her yapping till the sun comes up ?

Just a little rant. Everyone is trying to tell her that she can be a pretty shit and inconsiderate person. I've noticed many of her friends have been suggesting therapy and calling her out on small things. Big ego and she often talks over people. She claims to be so open minded yet continues to judge people who don't do what she wants. Example, she can't accept that her neighbour won't greet her. We tried to suggest that this girl could have social anxiety or simply just want to keep to herself and this Libra keeps trying with her instead of taking the hint and leaving her be.

They are sooooo mean. Geminis can be mean but in a goofy and funny way. Capricorns are genuinely mean spirited

Cuz why did i just buy a new wardrobe, glow tf up, buy a new signature fragrance, started working out again, lose 10 pounds, list all my old clothes on poshmark, deep clean my entire apartment, dump a 1.5 year situationship, quit nicotine patches/caffeine/alcohol all in the last MONTH

Also about to switch careers 😅

I am a Gemini with a Gemini moon, Gemini sun, and Cancer rising. Any married Geminis, who are you married to?