u/TsaMati

As a female scorpio, I've noticed that in my life only 2 men lovebombed me early on to the extent of even indirectly proposing (marriage), showed that were crazy in love with me, begging me, telling me exactly what i wanted to hear (no it's not the classic stuff every girl wants to hear), made me feel hypnotized and then when i showed a bit of reciprocity, boom ghosting. Both of them were aquarius men. Their behaviour seems pure insanity, but they almost lead me to the crazy house... At first they appear to be what you ever dreamt of and then they become distant, disinterested, ghost and they have the nerve to send a message once in a year for years to see "how you are doing", awakening anger, frustration and not letting you forget. Obviously i ended blocking them. But let me tell you, they love the block - unblock game and they both created fake profiles to follow me! What about you? What's the sign that has lovebombed you and then changed their behaviour completely?

I (f) would instantly be connected with other (f) scorpios but sooner or later and without any reason (!) they would either use, betray, abandon me, show their true colours and things would end like that.

I am many times attracted by scorpio men but they prefer the air signs, especially gemini - libra women who play them like a violin... I had a few male friendships with scorpio men but they had a secret crush with me so in the end these friendships would also end after a while.

I have noticed that when we reveal that we share the same sun (both f + m scorpios) they seem to dislike that fact. Personally after so many negative experiences with this sign i get triggered when i realise that they are scorpios. What about you?

Since i was a child i am dealing with abuse, trauma, bullying, attacks out of nowhere, betrayals and so much hatred. While I'm just minding my business. Recently i listened to an astrologer that scorpios even if they are really kind, polite and helpful cannot be liked and i felt it so deeply. Because despite being all that i face the actions I've mentioned everywhere.

The hardest part of life is no one believing me telling the truth. They always take the side of my abusers, the bullies, the liers and manipulators. Even my therapists and lawyers don't believe me or defend me! It's insane. The only thing that kept me through life and I'm here writing this, was one man. One man that finally recognised all my suffering and believed me without even having to go into details. But guess what, even he betrayed me because his mistress didn't like the friendship that we had and pulled him away.

Have you experienced similar events? Could it be a scorpio thing?

Since i remember myself, in my life all i have experienced from family - friends - everyone is abuse (physical, emotional), bullying, aggressive behaviours out of nowhere, injustice, disbelief (no one believes me, they always prefer the liers, my bullies, my abusers), betrayal, poverty, unemployment and absolute loneliness - isolation. My only solace was dance but i was also bullied - ostracized from the scene and now severe bone problems occured that dancing would worsen them so I'm afraid to practice even on my own.

The people who i was unlucky to have as family believed we are cursed. Now i believe it too. No matter how hard i try to change my life, all i encounter is the loop i mentioned above.

When i was a kid the only thing that made me survive was the fairytales. I too believed that the good mistreated girl will at the end be happy with a life full of love. In this life though the wicked witch is the one who gets the prince, family - friends who adore her and of course a successful career and a healthy body.

My doc said life will make them pay and that was my only solace. He was wrong. The moment you realise this, is life changing. All hope dies and everything becomes meaningless. As Hermann Hesse said in Stepenwolf, you are still alive because you don't have the courage to "end it all". Also a Woody Allen film comes to my mind, "crimes and misdemeanors", where the man who "ends" Angelica continues to live his life peacefully, successfully like nothing happened and that leaves the narrator helpless.

Me too i have to endure all the happiness of my torturers, while i, who i have never intentionally hurt anyone and still after all i have endured i only want to give love to others, live a constant and endless hell.

Many many years ago i had one cupping session for cellulitis that left permanently some little veins on my thighs. Has it happened to anyone else?

Also the anti cellulitis massage was not something i would do again, since it was an unpleasant experience for me. Please check with your doc before if your health can handle it.

A few days ago i saw a nightmare where my one year old intense gym crush was flirting explicitly with another girl in front of me. The day that followed was purely awful. I received some super evil, hostile, threatening behaviours. Days after, my second crush was drooling over another girl just next to me and i had to endure his non stop simping for twelve hours, since we were in the same workspace. The other colleagues said behind their backs that they play the engaged couple. They even left together. Has anything similar occured to any of you?

Right now i should be sleeping but I can't. My heart is too heavy. This year and particularly this month - week has been extremely cruel to me in literally every aspect of my life. If i won't lose it, it will be a miracle...

The past months i am freelancing once in a while (the only job that i could attain right now) and there was a boy i found attractive. Since he appeared snob and didn't give me attention, i stopped caring. After seeing me one day more curated in my appearance, i understood that he finds me attractive. Still and even though we knew each other, he would never say hi. One day we were positioned to sit next to each other and a colleague tried to play the matchmaker with us, asking me if i found that guy attractive in front of him. I refused to answer because i didn't want to feed his ego and also i wanted to have a professional attitude. Before that, i need to mention that, he said that I'm a good match with another colleague and that he's not interested in having a relationship right now, something that also mentioned it other times with other colleagues. So, my statement came after this info too. We had some great laughs that night and i really thought that we got closer till he asked to change seats after a while... Long story short, the next times we encountered he would sometimes passionately stare at me without saying hi, sit in front me without again saying hi and would randomly jump into a conversation i had with someone sitting near him to tell me one thing and then ignore me.

I even foolishly posted on the subreddit of his astrological sign to ask advice from other males of the same sign about his behaviour and ridiculously told me that oh he's too awkward, shy, your intentions are not clear to make a move, you should make a move ect. The project we were freelancers ended and i thought that we wouldn't see each other for a long time just when he started staring at me more and i started missing him, searching for his social, even considering following him or sending a random text (we are in the same work group chat). What a clown! Thank God I didn't follow my impulse...

To the point, today unexpectedly it happened to freelance in the same workspace and guess what... We were sitting in the same couch with a girl between us and he was DROOLING for her! I spent 12 hours (of work) obliged to watch a completely different man, not shy at all, talking all the time with her, following her like a puppy, glued to her, smiling at her constantly, simping her (even the other colleagues mentioned behind their backs that they are playing the engaged) and even LEFT TOGETHER! I am facing such difficulties in my life: serious health issues, mourning, poverty, dept, legal issues, a neighbour that doesn't leave me in peace ect and i had to endure ALSO THIS. I wanted to cry and i still want to. So much pain and sorrow.

Heading to the advice part. Fellow women stop watching tarot, stop fantasing - making interpretations, excuses and stop believing this idiotic perception that a man treats all his women the same. He doesn't. If he really likes you you won't have a single doubt. End of story. I know it's great escapism from all the life's difficulties but as in my case, it could lead to even further heartbreak.

I got a free sample from a drugstore and didn't notice that it was retinol. On a summer night i applied it on my face. The next day i went swimming in a pool wearing sunscreen as always. The sun in my country though is super intense and in the pool - by the pool, even more intense. Result: i got discoloration both in my chin and my forehead. Has it occurred to any of you? How did you tackle it?

Lately i have completely freaked out about the countless cherry angiomas that have appeared all over my body. This has shuttered my self confidence because I'm a young person. The doctor told me that i should not worry and it totally depends on the predisposition of ones skin aka genetics. My family had very few on contrary with me.

My question is, what are your experiences with cherry angiomas removal? Did the skin recovered completely? Was it painful? Time for complete recovery? If you could post before after pictures (only of the specific area of course) it would be very helpful!

I wish this post would be hidden from other signs. Recently i went to a party and i encountered an old friend (we were some feet apart). We just ignored each other. Even though i ended the "friendship" because he wasn't there for me when i most needed him (while he had being a doormat to many so called friends of him or acquaintances who both just wanted to use him and didn't give a damn about him, while i loved him truly), i found myself still loving him and having the urge to hug him. I don't know if it's my pisces rising but unfortunately i can not only completely forgive someone, but i could even "erase" the bad experiences out of a bursting love that i feel for very very few people which doesn't seem to be able to stop no matter what happened. For the record, he is a sagitarius. Have you fellow scorpios experienced similar feelings?

Fellow literature lovers scorpios have you searched the zodiac signs of your favourite writers? What were they? Mines are 2 cancers (Hermann Hesse, Erich Maria Remarque), a capricorn (Kahlil Gibran) and a sagitarius (Naguib Mahfouz). I know it's only their sun but still.

This year is literally the worst year of my life. Each month is even worse than the previous one. Punch after punch non stop. I have encountered and i am encountering extreme difficulties in every single aspect of my life, extreme aggressive behaviours, the worst luck - health, betrayals, no money, no job, deaths, neighbours who won't leave me in peace for one minute. Is there any other scorpio who faces anything similar? I really can't take it anymore, i feel like my whole body will explode from desperation.

I (f) recently came to know that my one year old crush (m) is taurus. We've met a year ago at the gym where we meet once in a while. The first time, i had zoned out on his shoulders and that got into his ego and started a very intense staring for some seconds. Later he was talking with his best friend he looked at me with a bad boy smile and i was very embarrassed and looked away. My first impression was that he is a flirt with many experiences. He and his best friend are very good looking.

The next times he started completely ignoring me, which really hurt me and pissed me too. After that i started also trying to not give him attention. The moment i started indeed to lose interest, he started staring at me some times, following me (using machines nearby) and even mimicking my exercises. Without his best friend he seemed very insecure, with not much experience in women (he doesn't even talk to other women at the gym, except one that talks to everyone and with whom he just said hi), pretty moody and lost. It's like there were two people in the same body!

The other thing is that he has no concept of manners - politiness, which on top of his games make me mad! I was talking to the trainer and he started talking over me multiple times, like i didn't exist. In a narrow passage i tried to pass and he didn't give me space, he walked on the side i was willing to go, he once passed by me with literally closed eyes because i saw him from a distance and looked away.

He has ignited intense feelings in me, even though i know down well that he shouldn't, but i just can't ignore him, he's so handsome, clean, dreamy, strong and finds me attractive too. I also can't stop feeling so nervous around him, especially when i have to ask him how many sets he has left. He responds to me so calmly that enrages me, because it means that he doesn't give a s. The one time that he was visibly upset was when i received some news from my ex. It was the only time he asked me for a machine and his voice was angry.

From my side i unfortunately do things to make him engaged in me and i feel a bit embarrassed thinking about it to be honest, but it's the silly things you do when you like someone and it's natural.

Any advice from fellow taurus men or even anyone who had similar experience?

My crush likes this anime character, Bachira Meguru. Any information on him from the community? I practically know nothing about my crush and maybe this way i could understand him a bit...

There is a colleague that i meet once in a while in an artistic workplace. From the first time i saw him i found him good looking but because he was a colleague and also didn't seem to notice me, i didn't pursue anything.

One day i was wearing really nice clothes and generally my style was more curated, formal and colourful, i noticed him staring at me. I'm sure that he was attracted to me that night. Even though we knew each other, he never says hi to me, which is a huge turf off for me. Another time it happened to sit close to one another and i had to be the first to talk to him... Surprisingly, we had a great time and laughed our hearts out. After that, i thought that we would at least chat for a bit every time we would meet but guess what, things returned to him not acknowledging me and of course not even saying hello! Another time we sat very close and i was staring at him to say hi, he ignored me and after a long time that other colleagues joined, he offered me something (he had treated the other colleagues too previously) and we had some intense eye contact and just exchanged some random sentences.

I catch him staring at me sometimes and i am pretty sure that he wants me (comically also two of his friends find me attractive) but he either ignores me, abruptly stops some exchange - eye contact between us, or avoids me. I have to mention also that i have another guy who flirts with me (the cap pretends to don't care, he has even said to me that we are a good match!) and when i mentioned that i had a crush in the past with someone, he started being nervous and even stopped a deep sigh. I'm so confused! Is it all in my head? If he's indeed interested what can i do? I also have to mention that from what he had mentioned, he seems very insecure and desperately wants a relationship.

So, i (f) have a gym crush (m) which started last year. He is a lot younger than me and obviously there is no realistic happy ever after but i just can't get over him... The first time we saw each other we locked eyes and after that there was and is a marathon of hot and cold behaviour from him. I don't know why i get so nervous around him and he creates so intense feelings inside me. If i don't see him for a long time it's way better but the moment i see him there is a resurrection of a sentimental tempest. Why i hate him? Because he has no manners and is rude to me sometimes and naturally that irritates me but what drives me crazy is that after all this i still can't ignore him or keep it calm. There is a battle inside me, i hate his bad behaviour but i am still attracted to him and I'm confused by myself. Why can't i stop being attracted to him? I would always unintentionally do something indirect to provoke his attention and i also hate this. What i hate the most though is that i think that he doesn't give a f. Jeez i wish i could control my feelings and behaviour......