Argument with an Aries colleague
I work one day a week, 12-hour shifts with a colleague. We’ve built a deep connection over a year. I’m a Taurus (laid back), she’s always commented on customers liking me, asks about my marriage plans, and I ask her too. She’s given me dating advice. When I mention other women, she reacts. Feels like she competes for my attention sometimes.
Recently we argued because I said men shouldn’t cry in front of their partner. She went 0–100, brought up her ex crying. Next day, she was quiet. I texted her to enjoy her holiday and joked about our disagreement. She replied it “wasn’t that deep” and nothing to agree on. I said I valued her opinion and respected her.
It’s not romantic but not fully platonic. How do you read this?