Agent gossiping about a buyer to a different buyer

I referred a friend to a buyers agent i know in a different state where I’m not licensed. He looked at a few houses and was really interested in one that the agent had listed. He saw it a few times and ended up not making a move.

Just randomly today friend and I were chatting and i asked if the place had sold/what happened. He tells me what it sold for and then launches into this whole story about the woman who bought it including graphic details of the abusive relationship she was leaving, where she was from and when she was moving/why etc etc.

I was taken aback and said “oh did she just have a lot of stuff on social media or something?” And he said no— that the realtor I referred him to told him ALL about this buyer. He was happy that the house went to someone nice who was starting over etc etc.

I was shocked at how unprofessional sharing this is. It’s also frankly unsafe as the woman is living alone in a city with a high crime rate in a one story home. My friend is not a threat but he very much could be. He’s not even involved in this transaction. Further the agent did not represent this buyer— she was representing the seller— so I’m absolutely sure she didn’t have permission to share this personal information. It would have been very easy to say “we got a great offer from someone who really loves it!” End of story.

I’m wondering if i should mention this to the agent and if so, how. I’m not going to be referring anyone else to her. Or do you think I’m overreacting? I know you want to build rapport and some relationships get very friendly, but this seems like way TMI.

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 10 days ago

Unmasking the Monster episode discussion

This one made me cry. It truly featured both the best and the worst in human behavior at the same time. I got very emotional at the end.

That human bag of trash is right where he belongs. Why are people so enamored of being a doctor? I know many and some are really not great people. The second wife stayed after he ADMITTED TO DRUGGING HER 15 TIMES! Girlfriend must have really liked living a cushy lifestyle. Deplorable.

What did you think?

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 12 days ago

All about Conjunctions

Do you have planets conjunct in your chart? Here’s how to tell and what it means!

A conjunction is the simplest aspect to picture: two planets parked at almost the same degree of the zodiac, close enough that they read as one point in the sky. Its glyph is a small circle with a short arm, and on a chart it sits between the two planets it ties together. Zero degrees of separation is the exact version, and the closer the two sit, the more completely they act as a unit.

Tight Degrees (0 to 2 Degrees)
Maximum intensity: The two planets act as a single, powerful force. Neither planet can express itself without the other.

Life-long theme: This tight bond creates a core part of a person's personality or destiny.

Example: A Sun-Mercury conjunction within 1 degree means your ego and your communication style are permanently locked together.

Moderate Degrees (3 to 8 Degrees)
Noticeable blending: The planets still strongly influence each other, but they have more room to breathe.

Working relationship: The energies cooperate, but they can still function independently at times.

The "Lights": Astrologers often allow a wider orb (up to 10 or 12 degrees) if the Sun or Moon is involved, because their energetic presence is larger.

Wide Degrees (9 to 10+ Degrees)
Fading connection: The influence weakens significantly past 8 to 10 degrees.

Background hum: The planets operate mostly on their own rather than fusing into a single focal point.

Sign and Boundary Changes
Same sign vs. cross-sign: A conjunction is strongest when both planets occupy the exact same zodiac sign.

The cusp problem: If two planets are within 5 degrees of each other, but one sits at the very end of Aries and the other at the very start of Taurus, the conjunction weakens. The shift in zodiac elements or modalities means the planets speak different fundamental languages, making it harder for them to fuse smoothly.

u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 12 days ago

I’d like my child’s name to reflect my love of exotic cars

I have always thought Lamborghini would be the best possible name for a girl. Ghini is so cute. Or Borgi. Just endless nicknames!

What other suggestions do you have so that people look at my child and think “her parents probably have enough money to collect exotic cars?”

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 16 days ago

Do you guys have flying dreams?

Curious.

I have a friend who has 4 Pisces placements in their inner planets who is always telling me about their flying dreams.

This person tends to be quite escapist and one of the common interpretations is escapism. But because you are rulers of the 12H i feel as though it may have something to do with that sort of energy too.

I have very vivid and often prophetic dreams myself so I pay attention to these things. I’ve not had a flying dream recently (not since probably my teen years). Is this a common Pisces theme?

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 16 days ago
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What’s your favorite type of weather?

Are you a cold weather person or hot weather?

Do you get thrilled by a thunderstorm?

Hot and dry or hot and humid? Snow or misty winter fog?

Do you live somewhere that you get to experience your favorite weather?

What’s your favorite type of weather, Scorpio?

u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 17 days ago
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Parents of Scorpio kids

I’m so tired of seeing parents post charts of their kids who have a lot of Scorpio energy and say things like “I’m scared for this child” or “I don’t think i can parent this child.” It’s so depressing.

Growing up my mom made a huge deal about my sun sign (she was libra) and it was used as a negative. I was “difficult” or “sneaky” or “my own worst enemy” because I was a Scorpio. I had one uncle who was also a Scorpio and told “he’s like you. But don’t bother him. He doesn’t like kids.” Very isolating and I did not really understand why my Libra and Leo siblings never were told this.

Years later i discovered my Scorpio final boss placements AND that my mom had a huge Scorpio stellium in her 3H, with Chiron in Scorpio too (and a Virgo ascendant that never wanted anything to be different or out of place.) I was clearly there to resolve some generational trauma and I made her deeply uncomfortable.

When I see parents complaining about their kids being Scorpio (or having a heavy 8H) i understand that they are pointing to their own inadequacies. It happens so frequently on Reddit. I just want to hug those baby Scorps and tell them i understand.

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 17 days ago

Taralynn in this latest episode

Anyone else feel like maybe her mother was telling the truth that the plot was somewhat her idea? Or that she was more involved than she was making it seem?

Josh did not seem like he totally bought her story. Something about her is just off.

u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 18 days ago

What’s the biggest miscarriage of justice that you have seen on Dateline?

Sometimes i just scratch my head at verdicts. Like the woman in Texas whose husband was killed in a home invasion while she was tied up in a closet and the jury convicted her. She was shown to have health issues that would have made this next to impossible and had absolutely no motive. Episode is Twisted in Texas.

What’s an episode where you just feel that justice hasn’t been served?

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 18 days ago

The Man Who Loved Christmas

Anyone think that the wife crashed the reunion to target him? Or someone like him?

The dude that did the robbery straight up reminded me of Reno 911.

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 23 days ago

Pisces and jealousy

I hate it when people do this but I’m going to ask for a Pisces read on some behavior. I am just trying to understand if this is actually jealousy (which I don’t ascribe to you guys in general.)

So long time on/off relationship with a Pisces/virgo/pisces and we have settled into a friendship while seeing other people. Pisces is out tonight for an event and texting me about “Tom” — catty things like he’s had an excessive number of drinks. He’s not doing well at karaoke. He’s hitting on someone.

I don’t have the foggiest who “Tom” is so I finally say “I’m not sure I know Tom?”

And he spits out this whole history of my brief and casual dating of Tom decades ago. Probably 20 years. Details I don’t remember.

I have not thought of “Tom” in AGES and didn’t even realize he still was in the basic geographic area.

So what’s with this? Jealousy? Competition? Just general cattiness?

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 1 month ago

Death of a Golden Girl

I watched this one in the background the other day. Seen it before but just forgot how incredibly SAD it was.

The victim, Paula Sladewski, was a 14 year old dating a 29 year old at one point (with her mom’s permission?!) who wanted to be a model, nude or otherwise. She goes missing after a night of clubbing in Miami and ends up burned in a dumpster identified by an earring.

The nightclub she attended prior is kinda shady. The boyfriend acts like a mess. The only person who seems like she has her head on straight is Paula’s sister who searches for answers (and apparently called CPS on the 29 year old boyfriend when Paula was young.)

It’s just a terrible story. I feel so badly for the victim and her sister. Paula’s life was defined by male attention and commodification of her sexuality. And to have that kind of brutal ending? My heart just hurts.

Does anyone remember this one?

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 1 month ago
▲ 274 r/Names

Old Appalachian names

I’m fascinated by this. These were taken from grave stones as well as individual family trees.

Theodosia (Dozy)

Rush

Sophronia

Verdie

Virgilia

Luly

Delphis (or Delphia— hard to read)

Corinthia

Coria

Rowena

Posey Joe

Zebedee

Waitstill

Temple

Melendy

Brewer Snow

Harlin

Early

Elbridge

Miranna

Alsie

Fountain

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 1 month ago
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PSA to all the “my Scorpio does this” posts

Apparently everyone who has a partner of crush with an annoying or dysfunctional trait can trace it back to being a Scorpio 🙄

Many of these traits have nothing whatsoever to do with a birthday or moon position.

If someone isn’t treating you well, have a conversation about before blaming astrology. Ask them what is happening. Make decisions accordingly.

If someone blocked you, it’s not a Scorpio trait. That person doesn’t want to talk to you. All sun signs have the same ability to block. I have personally never been blocked by a Scorpio in life.

If someone isn’t showing signs of interest or just hitting you up for sex that’s also an equal opportunity problem across the zodiac spectrum.

We aren’t a monolith. Most of the stuff posted here asking “why does my Scorpio do this?” have nothing whatsoever to do with the person being a Scorpio. It has to do with lack of communication, interest or maturity. Any sign can be guilty of these things.

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 2 months ago
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Why do you think people want to be Scorpio?

I see so many people who have a single Scorpio placement (not Sun or even moon) that claim our sign. There’s no other sign that seems to have this effect. As much as we talk about Leo, I don’t see people saying “oh I have a Leo Mercury and that makes me a Leo.”

What is it about being a Scorpio that people feel like they want to emulate? People complain about us and want to be us in equal measure. What are your thoughts?

u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 — 2 months ago