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Why do so many people dislike wearing "popular" scents?

I’ve seen so many reviews saying things like “everyone wears this” or “it’s too common now,” and I honestly don’t fully get it. I wear perfumes because I enjoy the smell, not because I need to be the only person wearing it. A lot of the fragrances people call basic are popular for a reason. I still really like Chanel Coco Mademoiselle and Dior Hypnotic Poison, even after hearing for years that they’re overused. Sometimes it feels like people in fragrance spaces pressure others into only liking niche or obscure stuff so they can seem more unique. But if something smells good and works for you, why does popularity suddenly make it worse? Do you avoid fragrances once they become too popular, or does that not matter to you at all?

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u/Commercial_Glass1158 — 15 hours ago

Grown folks business

Ahem, now I want to know… which perfumes will get you folded like a lawn chair, twisted like a pretzel, and turned every which way but loose lol.

I’ll circle back to put mine in the comments because I’m running late for work 😩 😂

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u/Exotic_Reporter_3309 — 14 hours ago

What’s your favorite Le Labo scent and why?

I’ve tried so many perfumes and Le Labo seriously has a perfume for every situation in my life. My favorite currently is Citron 28 (Seoul exclusive I got during their online City sales). It’s a flexible fragrance so I wear it to work, casual, or going out. The citrus and floral notes are indescribably pleasant.

I like Rose 31 because it reminds me of old churches, and it’s nostalgic for me. Their Ambrette 9 is perfect for when I’m already overwhelmed and need something light but feminine. Lavande 31 is such a polarizing scent to my loved ones because they find it too powdery yet masculine, but I love it. Some of my friends say it smells like me, and I think it’s the one that receives the most compliments from strangers.

So what’s yours, and why does it make you feel such a way?

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u/Evening-Culture-3618 — 13 hours ago

Lemon/ orange fragrance

Hi everyone I'm looking for a fragrance that basically smells like the r.eal fruits. Fresh and just like summer. I love the orange and lemon essential oils but I would want something similar as a fragrance that stays longer.

I have a bergamot oil but it has something to it that I don't like. Somehow too spicy and makes my throat tingle. I tried Vetiver pamplemousse and I like the citrus note in the beginning but didn't like what stayed. I'm extremely sensitive to smells. So if it is too sweet I or too heavy I get headaches. The Vetiver pamplemousse for example was too spicy? I do not like vanilla at all. I just want it to be fresh and citrusy.

My all time favourite Parfum is chanel chance Eau de Parfum. It's not fresh but it is not too heavy not to sweet and smells so delicious. And everyone loves it on me. I've been wearing it since 2013 and people told me how good I smelled at the end of a party night - so it stays without being overwhelming

This is just so you can see what I do like. And it's probably hard to get citrus That stays for 8 hours but anything that smells realistic fresh and like summer. Without smelling like vanilla coconut or too spicy (my biggest nightmare is 4711 or anything super sweet or super heavy ) it might be the bergamot in it that I do not like in it. It's also so tingly in my throat. But from looking at what it is inside I would imagine I like it. But it smells spicy not Citrusy to me. So no shame we All like different things and I'm not saying any of those are bad I'm just very sensitive when it comes to fragrances.

Do you have any suggestions? If all fails a body mist would do too. I'm not a fragrance pro so my descriptions are very unprofessional. Hope you get what I'm looking for.

Budget wise I don't know the upper ends. I'd say upper end might be like Chanel chance eau de Parfum but I'd definitely prefer It to be. Lot cheaper 😅. I'd definitely wear it more often.

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u/SuggestionNo501 — 11 hours ago

☀️SOTD: What are you wearing today?☀️May 21, 2026

Good morning FemFragLab! What's your scent of the day? Tell us why you picked that particular fragrance and where you are off to for the day!

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u/AutoModerator — 16 hours ago

Ordered these decants- feedback?

I really like black tea scents (Guerlain neroli outrenoir is my fav. Wulong Cha - loved the opening spray and Diptyque philosykos I like but neither last on me).

Green scents are a favorite— love Guerlain herbes troublantes. I got Hermes Jardin sur le toit but not green enough.

I’m hoping a mix of the above will scratch an itch- anyone have any and, if so, how’s the longevity?

Since I’ve been on this perfume journey, one thing is evident, how different a scent is on everyone!

u/wpc213 — 13 hours ago

Phlur Missing Person | Layering

Another comment on this!

I cant get enough of it. I am obsessed with this.

I have read bunch of bad comments on reddit, they said smells like a meat etc. so i decided to skip buying it. BUT.. i just could not..
it def is very sexy without screaming. its very feminine. i wish it was little last longer but i am okey as is. this is def the smell i want to sniff all day long.
I am still on the market looking for layering. and i'd like to read what do you think about missing person and what notes to layer with^^

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u/Ok-Swimmer9460 — 12 hours ago

Have You Ever Found The One Perfume To Obsess Over?

Well, hello there. Who are you? Based on your vibe, a student. Your blouse is loose. You're not here to be ogled, but those bracelets, they jangle. You like a little attention. Okay, I bite. You search the perfumes. Uh, DS&DURGA. MFK through PDM. Now, hmm, you're not the standard insecure nymph hunting for Le Labo you'll never finish. Too sun-kissed for Heretic. Who will you buy?

u/Outrageous-Law4507 — 1 day ago

Finally found a way to wear Angham!

I have been puzzled by my lack of interest in Angham since I bought it in February… the scent got a little better with time but I had zero interest in this blind buy… I could barely smell the vanilla in it and the lavender was non existant (and I love vanilla lavender scents). Last week I found this Vanilla Bean & Lavender EDP at Marshalls and this morning I thought why not putting them together and… Bang! The Vanilla Bean pushed the complexity of Angham forward and the result is beautiful! Will definitely reach out for it more often nos!

u/Various-Tree9142 — 14 hours ago
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Candid Avon perfume - a fragrance for women 1977

Anyone smell the similarities between this and SDJ 76 and Sensual Amber? BBW Luminous and Imari?

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u/jr9386 — 17 hours ago

Coconut Summer Perfume Recommendations?

Hello!

I’ve historically had a very sensitive nose, so I’ve avoided perfumes for most of my life. Recently I’ve been more interested in them, so I’ve been dabbling here and there with perfumes that I can wear and actually enjoy.

The first perfume I found that I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE is Bianco Latte. I love gourmand scents, especially with vanilla, and this scent is perfect to me. I can wear it, it isn’t too strong, it smells amazing to me and I’ve gotten a lot of compliments wearing it already.

On the opposite side, I tried Glossier You, and it was too “sharp” and strong. I didn’t like the scent and it irritated my nose.

I saw a post saying vanilla perfume is bad in summer? 😭 So I’m hoping to get some recommendations to replace Bianco Latte in the summer. I need something that is gourmand-ish, but won’t make people go “yuck” in summer, but something that isn’t too strong that will irritate my nose. I’m leaning towards Coconut being a primary note!

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u/Arakaari — 1 day ago

Has anyone found their signature scent?

I’m talking like you got rid of everything becuase you found the one. My goal is to find a perfume that I love and will love forever that also makes me get rid of everything else in my collection. I wish to declutter everything I own for something that I would consider my signature fragrance. Has anyone gotten to that point?

u/Sukibuns — 1 day ago

it has corn…. an update!

My blind buy of Knee High, by Pearfat, arrived yesterday!

The notes are listed as:

Top: Indiana Sweet Corn

Middle: Honeysuckle, Tiger Lily

Base: Fresh Blueberries, Hot Summer Air

I got a chance to wear it today and so far I’m enjoying it. It opens with bright, fresh, sweet corn. Like, for me, it smells just like freshly shucked corn from the road side corn stands that show up in the late summer. I love it! Sadly though, the corn note isn’t long lasting for me. It quickly dries down into a soft, slightly floral blueberry. I can still smell it on my arm where I sprayed it this morning, however, it is by no means “beast mode”. Nobody would be chasing me down the supermarket aisle asking what I’m wearing lol. 😂 (which I’m cool with!!)

Overall, I’m pleased with this purchase and my only complaint is that the corn note doesn’t last longer. Is corn like the banana note?! Fleeting and relegated to the opening of fragrances?! Honestly, idk. This is my only fresh corn perfume. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’d love to try more though if anybody has suggestions.

Random aside: Scents by Arri just released a new fragrance called Cereal Killa and one of the top notes is toasted cornflake accord. Naturally, I ordered it immediately. It shall be the summer of all things CORN! My new white whale. Viva la Corn! All hail King Corn! Look busy, Corn is coming!!! Okay I’m done now. I’ll see myself out.

u/toastymarron — 1 day ago

Help, Bergamot Baddies

Apparently I am very much into bergamot-forward fragrances as evidenced by my collection. Any recommendations or favorites for summertime? I currently have:

Bal D’Afrique
Mistpouffer
Bynomads - Oud Kyphi

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u/TurnoverOk4661 — 23 hours ago

Looking for something that smells like my favorite dry shampoo

This is not an ad I promise lol.

I have super sensitive skin and about 7 years ago I discovered that pretty much the only dry shampoo brand that doesn't make my scalp break out in angry, itchy bumps is batiste. I fell in love with the rose gold scent and it's been my favorite but I think it may have recently been discontinued or something, I haven't found it in stores in a few months now. I'm sad about it! I've been using other scents from the same brand and they work fine for my hair but I miss the rose gold scent specifically. So I was thinking, maybe I should try to find a perfume or body spray that smells like it? I'm not really sure if it exists though.

I included the scent notes from the manufacturer website but I honestly feel like they're not a great description. I wouldn't call it a floral fragrance necessarily, but there definitely are some floral notes. It's sweet, but I wouldn't call it a gourmand either. I really think the only notes I can easily identify from the list are jasmine and vanilla. Its a very girly fragrance, I'm not sure how else to describe it.

Does anyone recognize this scent? Is there anything like it out there?

u/ssshianne — 19 hours ago